How to Attract Any Women With the Help of Your Wingman

If you're a sociable guy who enjoys meeting women, it's hugely important to get yourself a wingman or train your friend in wingman rules. There are many benefits to having a wingman. What most people don't realize is that with a little simple communication, you can very easily open any group, create attraction with the person you are interested in, while creating an even stronger bond with your friend. If you go out regularly, your wingman will become your best friend. He will become an extension of you.

He will become a friend you take with you to bars, clubs, bookstores or whatever social gathering you go to in order to meet prospective dates. You now have somebody to share you adventures with and in time they will share other parts of your life. In fact, there's no bonding experience that quite equals this. The key is communication and once you master these simple rules, you will see a huge increase in success in social interactions.

1. He who approaches, chooses the girl

This is the cardinal rule and must be followed every time. The person who approaches can decide what girl he wants to flirt with. It's a team effort and you don't put yourself before the team. The person who approached took the risk of rejection and so he deserves to choose. Your wingman can approach first the next time. If you approach a group alone, you will have a far greater chance of successfully being accepted into the group. The people in the group will feel less threatened and will engage you in conversation more easily.

It also displays good things about you as most guys would never even think about doing this. It shows you are a confident, self assured alpha male who can start up conversations with complete strangers, quickly and easily. In any group that you approach, there can be other attractive women and then everyone is happy. However, if there is only one, then the person who approached gets to flirt with her. If both of you decide to go for the same person, you might end up spoiling the entire evening and neither of you will get the girl. So he who approaches first chooses the girl.

2. Raise your Friends Value

Once you are accepted into the group, and you start to tell the group about the people you are here with. Indeed, one of the first question's you will be asked by the group is;

Who are you here with?

This is your opportunity to tell the group all about your friend. This is very important as when he comes into the group, he will already be seen as a cool guy and, in turn, this will raise your value. Once you tell the group some of his achievements and his attractive qualities, they will open far easier to him.

3. Introduce the Person of Interest First

You need to signal to the wing the person you are interested in. It's a defining moment in the interaction. This allows your wing to calibrate what exactly is going on and how he can aid you. This is the point of most confusion and the rock on which many friendships have fallen. When your friend comes into the group, he will often have no idea which person you are interested in. If you point the person out or even say it aloud, it will be awkward and weaken the attraction between you.

The easiest way to overcome this obstacle is to introduce him to the person you are interested in first. This lets him know straight away that this girl is off limits and it eliminates any confusion between you. The other person will know exactly what person to talk to and where to position himself. Once you do this a few times, it will become very natural and will avoid any future conflict between you in this area.

A few other things to remember is:

• Never try attract your wings girl. It is irreverent how attractive they might be or if you feel there is a connection between you. You job is to help him get the date.
• Vibe off each other and bring positivity into the group
• When your wing enters the group, welcome him as if this was the first time you have seen him all night. If you practically ignore him, like many guys do, then the other people in the group will perceive him as lower
• value and this in turn will lower your value.
• Don't leave the Group before your Wing. If you are in the group and you are not having a good time, remember that you are there for your friend and the goal is to get him the date.
• They women in the group will usually try to flirt with you or at least show interest or demonstrate value to you, due to the fact that your wing has built up your value. You must be aware of this and direct all the attention back to your wing.
• Once you follow the above guidelines, you will have great fun hanging out with your wing and you will have some great times. However, if he keeps crossing your boundaries pull him up and explain what is happening and make sure it doesn't happen again. If it does, then simply find a new wingman.

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