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How to Attract Her Attention Online
Author: Joanna Moran  | Posted: 31-01-2008 | Comments: 0 | Views: 10 | Rating: (52)  (?) 
So you are about to send her an e-mail, like so many others before you, you have begun the first tentative steps into online dating. You have browsed over photos and profiles and finally chosen the one. But how can you make sure she responds favourably?, how can you attract her attention?
First things first, get noticed! Include a photograph with your profile! Having a photograph will increase your chance of a reply. Everyone likes to see who they are writing to. I advise you to send at least 1 photo! Honestly a photo really will significantly increase your chances of meeting your special someone! Don´t panic, take a photo against a background which doesn´t vy too much for attention, outdoor lighting always works well and looks more natural, and it will be easier to obtain a well focused shot. Then get someone to make you laugh! A friendly face, someone with a sense of humour seems more approachable and interesting, think of body language, you don´t want to come across as too closed and forbidding. Remember, a picture paints a thousand words!
When writing your letter tell your chosen lady about you and your life. It may help to seperate sections into categories, for example, describe your appearance, then describe your personality type. Let her know what are your likes and dislikes, to help get started try categories such as music, food, your hobbies and pastimes, are you artistic, sporty, musical, outdoorsy, do you enjoy company, reading, what are your hopes, dreams for the future? What do you work at? How do you spend your time? Consider also perhaps, how much information would you divulge if you had just met in a bar? The fuller and richer your content, the more likely you are to be successful, and attract the lady of your dreams, but be comfortable with the information you are divulging. Be yourself.
Be truthful. If you want the relationship to go anywhere you must be honest in your correspondence. Be sincere. Remember, ideally you want to meet this person face to face in the future, you don´t want to shock her! Online dating, when successful, continues offline. You won´t want to trip yourself up with lies, or ruin your reputation. If you don’t give an accurate description of yourself, it can come back to haunt you. When introducing yourself to your future partner online, this is your first chance to create a sense of trust, you want to begin the romance on the right foot. Honesty is much more attractive than dishonesty. Remember, and she probably thinks this too, ´If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is´.
It worked. She replies!, now how to ensure her continued interest? Well show her you care by paying close attention to what she writes, answer her, continue dialogue. Be interested and find out more about her. Develop a bond. Show an attitude of respect. Be a gentleman. Take the lead from the lady, particularly with sensitive and, or intimite issues. We all have certain barriers that we do not want crossed until we are comfortable with the person, and more familiar with them, everyone likes to become acquainted at a pace that is not intrusive.
Take it from me, ladies still love to be romanced. Why not send a gift? It is always nice to have your birthday remembered, or a special occassion celebrated, but don´t go over the top, I personally would find it a bit off putting for someone I had just met to inundate me with gifts, use common sense. Showing her you are thinking of her with a thoughtful gift will bring a smile to her face and attract her interest.
Just because this new relationship could be beginning from the saftey of your comfy armchair, don´t let common sense and your own intuition go out the window! Attract her attention by being smart, being honest, being interested. Successful communication is the key to building a loving relationship.
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 About the Author:Joanna Moran, a modern day matchmaker, works for Confidential Matchmakers, an International Dating Agency. We are dedicated to helping people who are genuine in their search for romance, love, a serious relationship, and even marraige.
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