How to Easily Find a 'friend With Benefits'

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How to Easily Find a 'Friend with Benefits'
 
Finding a 'friend with benefits' is easier than you think. There are plenty of women who want to promote their careers, be able to study and finish their degrees, or plain just don't have the time or inclination for a typical 'boyfriend'.
 
Women have physical needs, too. "Girls just want to have fun" is more than a title of a song. Women want and need companionship, just not always a serious, long-term relationship. With that in mind, here are some easy ways to find someone with the same idea in mind as you.
 
1. Find the right woman. Not all women are looking for a relationship; relationships take a lot of care. There are a number of women who have other things going on in their lives who don't want to take the time and effort to have a relationship with all the entanglements that go with it. Look for a woman who is really into her career, into studying, or is really passionate about something else besides a boyfriend. If they state "I don't want a boyfriend right now", that's all the better.
2. Be open with any discussion about sex. Now, don't start out with "Hey, you want to be my f*** buddy!" Remember, a woman wants you to get to know her. She wants to know if you will be fun and easy to be around. After you have talked for a while and gotten to know each other, have a light-hearted conversation about sex, probably starting out with something humorous. See how she responds to this conversation. If she is open, she'll joke back.
3. Remember, it's still a relationship, just a different kind of relationship. You need to build the attraction by letting her know that she is attractive, fun, smart, etc. Don't lie, but don't be stingy with complimenting her either.
4. Make sure you both know where the boundaries are. Neither one of you want to let things get too personal. It's the sexual relationship that you want to highlight, not the personal relationship. Some boundaries are treating her respectfully, realize that she's probably dating other guys, see each other once or twice in a week. Basically, keep things light and casual.
Enjoy this relationship for what it is. Always treat her with respect and friendliness. And have fun with each other.
 
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How to Easily Find a 'Friend with Benefits'

Finding a 'friend with benefits' is easier than you think. There are plenty of women who want to promote their careers, be able to study and finish their degrees, or plain just don't have the time or inclination for a typical 'boyfriend'.

Women have physical needs, too. "Girls just want to have fun" is more than a title of a song. Women want and need companionship, just not always a serious, long-term relationship. With that in mind, here are some easy ways to find someone with the same idea in mind as you.

1. Find the right woman. Not all women are looking for a relationship; relationships take a lot of care. There are a number of women who have other things going on in their lives who don't want to take the time and effort to have a relationship with all the entanglements that go with it. Look for a woman who is really into her career, into studying, or is really passionate about something else besides a boyfriend. If they state "I don't want a boyfriend right now", that's all the better.

2. Be open with any discussion about sex. Now, don't start out with "Hey, you want to be my f*** buddy!" Remember, a woman wants you to get to know her. She wants to know if you will be fun and easy to be around. After you have talked for a while and gotten to know each other, have a light-hearted conversation about sex, probably starting out with something humorous. See how she responds to this conversation. If she is open, she'll joke back.

3. Remember, it's still a relationship, just a different kind of relationship. You need to build the attraction by letting her know that she is attractive, fun, smart, etc. Don't lie, but don't be stingy with complimenting her either.

4. Make sure you both know where the boundaries are. Neither one of you want to let things get too personal. It's the sexual relationship that you want to highlight, not the personal relationship. Some boundaries are treating her respectfully, realize that she's probably dating other guys, see each other once or twice in a week. Basically, keep things light and casual.

Enjoy this relationship for what it is. Always treat her with respect and friendliness. And have fun with each other.

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how to approach, meet and get dates with attractive

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Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

For more information and to claim access to Alex Coulson’s “5 Step System” Audio E-course for FREE (limited time only) head over to http://www.alexcoulson.com

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1. Renee' (09:24, 17.12.2008)

if u know u dont want a relationship, but would like some intimacy from time to time.. being a friend w/benefits is good! i find it helpful for it to be with a guy that u know has nothing to offer long term so u dont have to worry about getting attached.

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