Online dating is the king of all the ways to meet women today. Why?
1) Women are a lot more open to your “moves” on the internet than they are in person. There is nothing intimidating, uncomfortable or even scary to a woman about a bunch of typed text that you sent to her.
2) You don’t have to fear being rejected face to face. That eliminates nervousness, clumsiness or fear right off the bat! Basically, it means you can be as smooooth as you want to be without screwing it up. Don’t be fooled though, rejection is always a part of the dating process - a big part. Even the best looking men on the planet get a “no thanks” more often than they hear a, “yes, I’d love to.”
Why? Because most women look for more than looks or money. They’re all different, mind you, and some are looking for comfort, fun, mystery, friendship and lots of other reasons men simply don’t think about.
In a lot of ways dating is a numbers game. The problem with that is that a lot of men are upset at the odds when it comes to dating offline or online. So how do you increase the odds in your favor? It comes back to numbers again. How many times have you written to just one woman and sat back and waited and waited and waited for her to reply and either she replied with a “no thanks,” or she was totally rude and didn’t reply at all because she wasn’t interested?
About the numbers. What the really successful men do that others could copy is that the ones that get a lot of dates write to a lot of women. They don’t pour their hearts out in one email and sit back and wait, they send a short, “Your photo really gets my motor going and I’d like to get to know you better,” and leaves it at that. He finds SOMETHING in her photo, ad, profile, blog, voice ad or forum comment to show that he really IS interested in her. As a woman at SexyAds I get mail every single day from men around the world that say, “wanna fuck?” Not one of them read my ad that said I worked here and was only here to help. Other women feel the same way when the email she gets doesn’t reflect what she’s looking for or something about her.
If you want to find someone and be in a relationship by the holidays, start now! If you’re tired of being alone on the weekends, now is the time to contact everyone that could be a potential match. Don’t be too particular unless it’s an absolute deal breaker! Don’t forget that some people just can’t get a decent looking photo even though they’re quite attractive.
Think about holding someone soft and naked next to your skin - and start writing!!
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