How to Flirt With Girls - 3 Highly Effective Flirting Tips for Men

Posted: Aug 06, 2010 |

You would think that flirting with girls would just come naturally to you right? Then why is it that whenever you are in a situation where you see a woman that you definitely want to flirt with, your mind tends to go blank as to what you SHOULD do to make her have a fun time flirting with you?

The problem stems from way back in the day. See, guys as they are growing up, they tend to communicate mostly with other guys. So, they never really learn the communication skills with women that will produce the results that they want. And even the guys that did spend a lot of time with female friends, well, they learned how to communicate with women... as a friend!

You have to be able to turn that around and learn how to flirt with women in a way that makes her look at you as being more than just a friend, as more than just another guy that really sucks when it comes to communicating interest with a woman.

Here are 3 highly effective flirting techniques with women that will help YOU to do just that:

1. Let go of the need to "win" her approval.

This is probably the number one thing that you NEED to do if you want to make a woman want to date you. See, the more that you signal to her that you are needy for her approval, the more she is going to see you as just another desperate guy out to try and get attention from women. And trust me, most women run into these types of guys ALL of the time. They end up having no effect on her at all. You have to come across as being a guy that DOES NOT need her approval.

2. Learn how to flirt just a little, and wait for her to flirt back.

This is another thing that most guys do wrong. When they flirt with a woman, they go all out right away. They don't hold anything back, and like a flame that burns too hot, they burn out really quickly. Be a little more patient and subtle when flirting with a woman. Take a moment to step back and LET HER do a little flirting back with you. This is the way that it is supposed to happen NATURALLY.

3. Don't retreat too soon.

If your goal to flirt with women is just the experience, then by all means, that's all you need to do. However, if your goal is to get something more going on, like a date with her, then you can't fall back too soon. You have to be able to close her for the number or an e-mail address. Otherwise, all the flirting in the world is NOT going to improve your dating life at all!

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