1. The Material or the Possessions of a Man
No matter how this may be controversial, girls will most likely be interested in a man who has some means of taking care of them. Well the degree of how much is acceptable to a girl again depends on the individual girl. The extent of a girls want for a financially stable man could actually be a measure of distinguishing between a gold digger and the genuine ones.
The bottom line here is that as a man you should expect the woman to want you to prove you have at least enough to take care of her needs. Where else some girls may insist on you having just enough, others will only go for the wealthy and if there is someone else wealthier than you... well too bad.
2. The Mans Influence, Power and Status
Before we discuss this need, we need to understand that a girl’s expectation of a man’s status is influenced by their need to fell secure. A woman looks for that man that commands some if not absolute power among his peers, profession and life in general. The reason simply being that the more powerful the man the better they will be able to take care of her.
Nature has programmed the woman to secure the best possible mate in terms of strength, power, domination and all. Look at the animal kingdom for example, a female often chooses the most powerful male to mate with. Yes guys it’s no different out here in man world. Luckily, as a man we don’t have to physically fight off other males to win mating rights.
3. Reputation and Fame
While a man’s reputation and fame plays a vital role in a girls desire to date you, it’s not a universal trait. Its easier to actually say that being famous cuts the work you would have put trying to date a girl by half. Girls are attracted by fame like butterflies are to a lit bulb. My guess is that if someone is famous, it’s easier for the girl to identify with that attribute.
It kind of explains why the football players in your high school seemed to attract all the girls to them. Especially the ones that had looks that could pass as good. Well since not all of us were or are football players in high school, girls don’t necessarily insist on you being rich and famous. In any case not all of us can be famous and that’s why fame is not ideally a prerequisite to a girl agreeing to date you. Phew!
4. A Man’s Looks Count
Forget the tale of the beauty and the beast. Every girl is interested in a man’s looks. The handsome ones get taken so fast that it’s dazzling. It’s important to know your strengths and weaknesses in your looks and try to do a thing or too. Since most men don’t have a face to write much about, I included (no offence); one needs to compensate with good glooming, nice clothing and generally being clean, suave and neat.
I have done this experiment and found that even I am attractive to women when I have worn my best thread. The occasional put purposed gaze you get on the street say enough about the importance of a man’s outlook. It’s important however not to over do it.
5. A Man’s Personality
Most girls are attracted to men with a strong personality. Desire\able personalities include being courteous, polite, firm yet sensitive and above all considerate. Most men however confuse having a personality with being headstrong and egotistic. Our biggest undoing is our ego. If a girl does not point it out early and agrees to date you, you can rest assured this will be recipe for disagreements later.
Some of the most desirable personalities that are crucial in the first weeks of attracting a girl include having a sense of humor, being creative, showing some intelligence and most importantly being romantic. Romance is an important personality trait that a girl especially looks for in any man. The more romantic the more adorable they are to the girl.
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