James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called "the ultimate amoral guide to seduction". Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide
If you are one of those lonely guys who wants to know how to get a girlfriend, don't lose hope. We are going to provide you with some real world seduction tips. Any man can end up with the beautiful woman of his dreams - he just needs to learn some techniques that will help him in the process.
When you want to learn how to get a girlfriend, the first thing you need to do is learn the art of the push/pull. You may not be familiar with this mind trick, but I guarantee you will happy once you learn more about it. This involves convincing a woman of something or making her want something, and then turning around and withdrawing the object of her desire.
If this doesn't make sense, think of how badly you want a candy bar when you are on a diet or of sex when you have been celibate for long. You may not have even thought about eating one during a regular week, but the minute you are on a diet and are forbidden to have one, you want it all the more. The exact same principle can be applied to women.
There is another aspect of real world seduction that you need to know if you want to focus on how to get a girlfriend. You should prepare by learning the practice of cold reading. This normally involves new age practices such as reading tarot cards, tea leaves, palms or crystal balls.
Obviously, these aren't practical when you want to meet a girl, but you can learn from the philosophies behind them. People are impressed when you take the time to learn about them, and women are no exception. Cold reading involves studying a woman for a while and picking up on her body language and some of the non-verbal clues to her personality.
For example, zero in on a woman who is standing with her arms folded across her chest and tell her you think she must be very guarded, but that she is probably also very happy to relax once in a while and show her unprotected side. Keep the observations fairly vague and be sure to include opposite traits as these are very common in most people. She will be impressed that you "know" her so well that may lead to an eventual relationship with her.
If you have always wanted to know how to get a girlfriend or practice the art of real world seduction, now is your chance. Learn the ingenious art of the push/pull theory where you convince women to want what they can't have.
Bait them little by little like a donkey with a carrot dangling in front of his face, and eventually they will be lining up around the block to date you. Practice this in combination with the art of cold reading or convincing a woman you "know" her. Once you have mastered these two skills, you will be ready to give Don Juan a run for his money.
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