Do you often find it hard to get girls to like you?
Well if so, you're not alone.
One of life's major problems is getting a girl to be attracted to you and to like you. Now if you're like most men, then you probably don't know where to start. The question is how to get girls to like you without make an idiot of yourself?
Fortunately there is an easy solution to this problem. When I receive an email from my loyal list subscribers asking about getting a girl to like them, the first thing I tell them to do is to build rapport!
So what is rapport?
Well rapport is a physical and emotional connection between two people. Primarily with a girl it's having an intimate level of chemistry (romantic & sexual feelings). In modern language, rapport can be described as "hitting it off" with a woman.
So if you really want to learn how to get girls to like you, then you should focus on build rapport with them. And this can be accomplished in 4 "easy to learn" steps:
Step #1- Be a positive guy around girls
Whenever you're around girls, you must display a positive attitude and level of emotion. In order to be well liked, you need to show an exciting personality which stands out from other guys.
By displaying a positive vibe, you'll find that girls will be magnetically drawn to your personality. In addition, you'll become the fun guy that everyone wants to be around.
Step #2- Be an energetic guy
Girls are attracted to energetic guys who are full of life. So when you're around them, you have to smile and make them feel comfortable.
In order to maximize this trait, you must get rid of ALL negative feelings or emotions which hinder your chances of building rapport. So ditch the bad moods and sullen disposition. Instead try to be an exciting guy who girls want to know more about.
Step #3- Be a confident guy
Confidence is a MAJOR trait which all girls love about guys. So when you're trying to build rapport with a girl, make an effort to display a confident and alpha male personality.
By demonstrating to girls that you're not afraid to take charge of situation and use some initiative, you're demonstrating a basic attraction mechanism. In essence girls are attracted to men who step up to the plate and go for what they want out of life.
Step #4- Be a relaxed guy who doesn't worry about outcomes
The last step towards building rapport is to never worry about any outcome around a girl. Your goal around girls is to relax and have fun. This means you never worry about hooking up or dating a girl. Instead you simply act like a cool guy who carries himself with a quiet sense of confidence.
By cultivating this personality, girls will come to you. So you won't have to work hard to get them to like you.
So if you want to discover how to get girls to like you I recommend that you work hard to develop these 4 fundamental personality traits. If you incorporate them into your life, you'll instantly transform yourself into a guy who all girls like.
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I told him I love him after 3 years, he says he "'kinda sorta"' likes me?
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I am very smitten with a girl I met a few years ago at a music store I was working in. She was initially annoyed when I first called, (her number was on her demo CD), but came in about a year or so later and was friendly and seemed to be flirting a little. Given her initial reaction I wanted to ask her out, but didn't. I guess I was happy she was just being friendly.I've been sending her little notes on her My Space for the past year, and she hasn't responded. I finally got a chance to see her about two weeks ago, she did a CD signing at a show, I was surprised at the very warm reception I got. She gave me two very nice hugs, one was a lingering hug with her holding me very tight, and we chatted a little, she said she'd like to play some music with me sometime. I gave her my number and Email, and said I'd like to chat with her, and get together sometime. It's now almost 14 days, and I havn't heard anything. Should I give this one more try, and ask her directly to meet sometime or for her number/Email, or should I forget it?
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By: wearthegrudge | 28-03-2008
I stayed over my friends the other night, I borrowed his long t-shirt for when I went to bed (it's big for me so it covers the top of my legs i'd changed into the top by taking my other cloths off underneath so nothing was seen, then i just took my jeans off) Anyway my friend was chatting to me when he turned back after I changed he glanced down at my legs as he continued talking but then looked back at my face quickly, he glanced again during the conversation. Also a week or so before I'd stayed over and wore the same thing and he gave me the same look when I was leaving the room to get something (looked down at my legs) Once before I was waring black tights and a normal skirt and I was laying on my front playing video games next to him and I saw him glance at my skirt. I'm just worried that either he's being a perv OR he is dissaproving? (but its not a disgusted look) of what I was wearing (i normally wear shirts and jeans) btw me & my friend had a brief "thing/affair" some time ago
Umm is he COMING onto me? :/ or not?
By: wearthegrudge | 09-03-2008
My friend has a gf but the other day I was round his house late, and I was happy to leave (i've left that late before) but he asked me to sleep the night I said ok. Anyway last time I slept over I slept on the floor, this time his male friend was round and was sleeping on the floor (there was probs room on the floor for me too) So I ended up sleeping in his bed with hi(it was a double bed, but we slept close and facing eacother, our legs and stuff were touching "accidently" but at one point he had like his knees tucked in my stomache, (btw Me and my friend had done stuff with eachother a couple of years back but never dated) also recently he was acting really jealous about some guy i was friends with, and he touches me a lot (subtley on the hand or back once he was talking to me ata gig and his face was really close his nose resting on my closed eye ) and if we sit next to eachother and our arms/knees touch he dont move em, am I just reading to mcuh into things or is he trying it on?
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