How To Hold A Girl's Hands

| Posted: 05-04-2006 | Comments: 0 | Views: 2,187 |

Are you looking for opportunities to connect with a girl? Then holding her hand is the perfect means of reaching out to her. Whether you are beginning a relationship or growing it, here are three sure ways to connect and hold her hand.

Gimme Five

Gimme five is a classic opportunity to hold hands. Well, technically, you don't hold hands, but touch hands, and that should be a good start. Use this technique if you are not entirely sure about your feelings towards a girl, or if you are still testing the waters.

As you go on about your friendship, there will be an opportunity to connect, to feel without committing, to see if sparks will fly. When you share a victorious moment, say winning a foosball game or finishing a project, ask the girl to give you five by holding out your palm facing up and say, "Gimme five!" With such a friendly and risk-free move, she will definitely oblige. As soon as she slaps your hand, momentarily close your eyes and savor the experience. If you felt sparks, then she's definitely a keeper. If not, then don't lose hope, there are other opportunities to physically connect with her and test if the relationship is headed somewhere.

I Got You

This opportunity to hold a girl's hand arises when the girl is about to overcome an obstacle and would need support, say as she alights from a vehicle or flight of stairs or when leaping across a puddle of water. Do the following:

As the girl is about to embark on the activity, look into her eyes and convey, without words, that you are there for her. If she's looked away and is concentrating on the obstacle in front of her, then bravely declare that you are there by saying, "I got you" or " here," and simultaneously hold out your hand with the palms up and fingers slightly cupped. No girl can resist a helping hand and an assured voice.

As she takes your hands, you will feel that she will cup her hands onto your palms, as if securing herself on you and may put on some weight, especially when she's on her way down.

Respond by securely cupping your fingers and locking your elbows and shoulders to accept the added weight that she will put on you. Just be conscious not to grip too hard, as she may feel a strain if her hands are squeezed too tight.

As she overcomes her obstacle, gently ease the grip, but don't let go of her hands just yet. This is a decision moment for you, whether to take the opportunity to continue holding her hand, or to let her go and hope for a next time.

If you decide to hold on, then ease into to the next type of holding hands, for a more comfortable connection.

If you decide to let go, then make sure she remembers the experience. As you ease-up the grip, warm up her hands to convey the honor and pleasure you experienced in the opportunity to secure her. Caress her hand by sliding your thumb on top of her hand or sliding you fingers at the side of her hand. At the same time, ask if she's ok, or if she's ready to go. Soon as she say's she's ok, gently let go and politely bid her to, "take care on your way," or "have a good walk."

Locked to Me

If you are in a stable relationship, then you know that physical intimacy is part of fostering your bond. Holding hands is an intricate part of your relationship. Whether you do it in private or public, holding hands does not only connect your emotions but enhances it as well. One of the most common types of holding hands is the "locked to me" way.

This style has to do with interlocking your fingers with hers, as you hold hands. Do this by putting your palms together, as if in prayer.

As your palms align, the fingers will naturally align. However, to be intertwined, pivot your palm slightly sideways and open up the spaces in between your fingers.

As your fingers open up, the girl's fingers will naturally fall into the spaces in between, so both your fingers alternate with each other. Just curl your gingers to the back of the other's palms and your fingers and hands become locked to each other.

As your relationship grows, you may discover other ways of holding hands, and those that will suit yours and her hand type. The important thing is never letting go, for as long as your hands are together, you and her become one.

Rate this Article:

Current: 5 / 5 stars - 2 vote(s).

Article Tags: article, reprint

Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-hold-a-girls-hands-21355.html

Print article

Send to friend

Publish this Article

Author feedback

About the Author:

For more great tips on dating and picking up women, check out our free dating articles at Pick Up Success Guide

Submitting articles has become one of the most popular means of generating quality backlinks and targeted traffic to your website. Join us today - It's Free!

Article Comments

Add new Comment

Got a Question? Ask.

Ask the community a question about this article:

Frequently Asked Questions

Any reviews on Training anad generalization of ...
By: Lady Day- Mack | 19-07-2008
Any reviews on Training anad generalization of affective behavior displayed by youth with autism Gena, A., Krantz

Oprah Winfrey Biography book/article
By: Cannucks | 16-05-2008
Looking for the best Biography book/article on Oprah Winfrey

Can a breast support garment help in the ...
By: mckinnis | 22-04-2008
can a breast support garment help in the prevention of cysts, tumors or breast cancer?

Correcting From Wikipedia to Google Earth
By: andywass | 31-03-2008
How do I get a Wikipedia article which I have corrected on their main site revised on Google Earth . Its 2 weeks since I corrected it but Google Earth is still showing the incorrect version.

I have not heard anything on the condition of the ...
By: ALM | 05-03-2008
I have not heard anything on the condition of the young child. I keep he and his family in my thoughts and prayers. This article says nothing about his condition except that he was listed in critical/stable condition, yet the headline says "KILLERS" of 6-yr old boy. Is he still critical/stable, or did he pass? Please let me know at trinityresources@yahoo.com.

Is it the complete article?
By: curioso | 02-03-2008
There is not missing something below in this article? I could think this is only the first page of a larger article. is it?

Q&A Powered by:

Latest Dating Articles

How to Find a Russian Bride
By: Michiel Van Kets | 23/07/2008
Russiandatinglive.com focuses on matchmaking services and dating for people looking for a serious relationship which will, hopefully, lead to marriage.

Dating Scams and Background Checks
By: A. Hathaway | 23/07/2008
An overview of the rise in online dating and the increased demand for background checks to verify relationships.

Two Out of Every Five Single People in the United Kingdom Now Use Online Dating Services
By: Jayne Waldorf | 23/07/2008
It seems everywhere we look these days we see advertisements for online dating. The online dating community and online dating agencies have expanded a great deal in recent years. Internet online dating is fast and it is quite possible that a person that fits your criteria has joined the dating site...

Be Safe When You Date
By: Jayne Waldorf | 23/07/2008
On line dating is a dating service based on the internet, because it is based on the internet it can reach out to every corner of the globe and so is much further reaching and with many more subscribers than a conventional dating service. Even so it would be unreasonable...

Free Online Dating Services For Singles
By: Bercle George | 23/07/2008
When you have signed up to become a member of online dating service of your choice, you will be expected to give your details so that they can be included into a profile for internet dating enthusiasts to view.

How to Have Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy and Want You Back
By: Roger Ahman | 23/07/2008
Creating a desire within your ex to want you back is very strong. How can you make them miss you so they'll take you back?

When the Rules Change
By: Dr. Dennis W. Neder | 23/07/2008
What do you do in a marriage when the rules change and sex ends? Do you have to just live with things as they are? Is there a solution? Dr. Dennis helps out a guy stuck in a sexless rut.

Why Do Men Cheat - Most Common Reason
By: Kwame Ofori | 23/07/2008
According to statistically reports men cheat more than woman. That is probably not surprising to you. The real is issue here is why do men cheat. That is not something that has been definitely nailed down, but there is one reason that seems to stand out from the rest. Read on to find out the most common reason that men cheat in relationships.

More from Pick Up Guide

Here Are Some Not-so Casual Date Ideas
By: Pick Up Guide | 19/04/2006 | Dating
Heterosexual attraction comes close to relationships when people started to go out on a date. That is, when a man and a woman had both decided to try seeing each other in a social context, where the primary persons involved are just the two of them.

How To Attract Women With Your Attitude
By: Pick Up Guide | 19/04/2006 | Dating
If there was one magic pill that you could pop to make yourself more attractive to women, would you take it? Chances are, most men would give answer with a resounding yes.

What Attracts Women 101
By: Pick Up Guide | 15/04/2006 | Dating
It has been a well accepted fact that men are basically clueless to whatever it is that attracts women.

How To Ask The Waitress Out
By: Pick Up Guide | 14/04/2006 | Dating
If a person is attracted to a waitress and would like to ask her if she would like to go out on a date, be sure that the manager is not around. It is all up to the person on how he will approach the waitress.

Bad Boys vs. Nice Guys: Which Do You Prefer?
By: Pick Up Guide | 06/04/2006 | Dating
Let us go straight to the point to all these small talks and focus on the question that slices into the very hub of man's survival. Bad boys or nice guys? This is truly a matter of personality choice.

How To Date A Busy Girl
By: Pick Up Guide | 06/04/2006 | Dating
Dating a busy girl can be one of the hardest and most frustrating tasks in the world of dating.

Why Flaky Women And Dating Seldom Works
By: Pick Up Guide | 05/04/2006 | Dating
Flaky women and dating do not mix. Although there are exceptions when a woman does have a valid excuse to flake out and a little leeway is appropriate. However this should not be the case all the time.

Is She Interested In Me: How To Decode Her Body Language
By: Pick Up Guide | 05/04/2006 | Dating
Women are generally known to be very talkative. Give them a chance to start talking and they will definitely shoot the breeze, unloading several months' worth of hormonal challenges unto your simple yes-or-no questions.

Article Categories

Article Marketing

Article Notepad

Stop Duplicate Content

Term Papers

Need Help?

Sign up for our email newsletter

Receive updates, enter your email below

Use of this web site constitutes acceptance of the Terms Of Use and Privacy Policy | User published content is licensed under a Creative Commons License.
Copyright © 2005-2008 Free Articles by ArticlesBase.com, All rights reserved. (0.07, 3)