How to Meet Guys: Six Secrets on Colors to Wear

Do you have problems meeting men? Are you aware of how colors influence your ability to attract others? If you want to make your best impression on people, pay attention to the colors you wear.

The significance of color has been studied by physicists, psychologists, and psychics, among others. A physicist might say that color is a vibration. A psychologist might suggest that color is a form of therapy. And some psychics might tell you that color contains links to your energy. Most of us have some knowledge of what colors we prefer and how they make us feel. But few people understand that color plays a major role in whom you might attract because of the color you are wearing.

Here are six secrets about colors to wear that may change your attraction level and help you meet the man of your dreams:

Six Secrets About Colors To Wear

*The Eyes Have It

How do you meet great guys? Study the colors in your eyes. Stand in a good light (outside light is best if it is a bright day) with a magnifying mirror. Most people have more than one color in their eyes. Identify the dominant color and the specks of colors. Those are the colors you want to match exactly in your clothing, and particularly the color you wear nearest to your face. When you are wearing the colors in your eyes, you are irresistible. If you engage someone in a conversation, they cannot turn away from you, they are so mesmerized by your presence. Wearing your eye color can also make you feel better if you are ill. When you are wearing your eye color, people don't know why but they feel they can trust you.

*Watch Out for Bright White

If you want to meet guys, make sure you know how you look in white-white. It is such a popular color for shirts and blouses, you may put it on without thinking about it. Few people can wear it and look good. Tan and brown skinned people wear bright white best. But the key is, it is important that the whites of your eyes and your teeth are white. Otherwise, wearing bright white will make them look yellow. Hold bright white up to your face and smile and see how you look. Then try the same thing with an off-white color and see how that looks. Pale-skinned people usually look better in an off-white.

*Fire-Engine Red May Scream Too Loud

You probably don't want to shout to meet a man. Bright red shouts. Some people can wear fire-engine red, like those who are dark-haired or dark-skinned. However, for most people, this color is harsh and highlights every imperfection in your skin. Or, it can overpower some of your attractive qualities. Put that color up to your face, and then compare another, toned down red and see which one looks best. Wearing a bright red blouse or a burgundy one could make the difference of ten years on your face.

*All Colors

All colors are good to wear...it is the shade of the color that needs attention. That is why, if you are shopping for a blue jacket, you want to have several shades of the blue and hold each one up to your face to see which one is most attractive. If you don't know, take a friend with you who can give you feedback.

*What Do People Say

What were you wearing when people gave you a compliment on how you looked? Chances are, you were wearing one of your flattering colors. Often, we think it is the outfit, but more often, it is the color. Whatever colors you were complimented on, those are the ones you want to keep in your wardrobe.

*What Colors Say

Reds, corals, and pinks are sensual colors. Neutrals, such as tans, whites, and grays help you blend. Black is a non-color that projects an air of mystery. Greens and blues are calming and not threatening. Yellows are sunny and cheery. Astrologers say that gold has the capacity to be emotionally warm, loving, and nurturing and that lovers have a lot of gold energy flowing between them. Silver is suggested if you are going to an outside event because the night sky will play off of it where gold will look drab.

Wear your most flattering color when you go out. You will significantly increase your chances of meeting someone you want to be with.

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