How To Really Tell If A Guy Likes You

I'm baffled at your articles. You seem to have good intentions, though misguided in your words and delivery of your opinions. I would suggest you consider taking some Psychology classes.

Quote: "I and you have probably read mostly flawed and clueless articles on how to tell if a guy likes you. The reason these articles are flawed and clueless is because they are mostly written by women, who have no idea of the complex system that is man."

This is probably one of the most chauvinistic statements I have heard from a man claiming to be trying to help women. Why do you have to talk down to women in this manner?

"For the most part, he will check you out everytime you walk by because he is fascinated by you."

Check you out? I tend to be more attracted to men who make eye contact rather than ogle my body.

"He will never ask you if you have a boyfriend. He will ask you things like, "Are you from this area?" "Do you live by yourself?"

I'm not sure how many guys have asked you out... but, yes, men do ask if you are seeing anyone.

"He may tickle your stomach very quickly."

If a man I just met, tries to tickle my stomach, he would probably get a very quick smack to his hand and a prompt good bye. Touching a lady's hair, her arm, her hand... is acceptable. Touch, what she considers to be an intimate part of her body and you will find yourself in deep water and gain the reputation of being a "creep."

"I want to discuss one big misconception that most women have when they try to write articles like this. They call it "If everyone likes you, so will he."

This idea that if you are well liked by people in general, your chances of finding a boyfriend is greater is a very good one. If you are a happy, outgoing, confident person you will have better results when it comes to dating. Its not about popularity, its about personality and feeling good about yourself.

"Now I don't know what planet these women are from, but that's not how it happens on earth."

There you go with those chauvinistic comments. What do you have against women?

Since you make no reference to these other authors, I will assume they are well educated. I am yet unclear as to your qualifications on this topic. Perhaps your fantasy/fiction writing is more based.

Again, you're switching my words around. You are a woman, you know NOTHING about a man. Get over it. But I will take time to own you once again.

First, I am not talking down to women, I am simply telling the truthful fact that women do not know men like they think. If I wrote an article about how painful it was to give birth to a child, would you think I have the right to write it? No, so women have no right to write about a sex which they are not and clearly know nothing about.

I distinctly said that men will make eye contact with you and that they like for you to do so in return, but it does not matter what you like, what matters is what he will do. That's your first mistake, thinking a man will like all the things you do.

I have never seen a man just walk up to a girl and say, "Do you have a boyfriend." Until you have made him comfortable, he will not.

About the flirting deal and tickling, I plainly said that he will not flirt with you unless you make him comfortable enough to do so, for the simple reason that most men are afraid of some kind of retalliation.

Finally, just because everyone else likes you, does not mean he will. But, then again, just because no one likes you, does not mean he won't.

Class disimissed.

well Chris is write here over all now every man or women may have there own way to flirt with some one

so it may not happion as Chris sead here but just the same he is write
now as r as women writeing this things about men thats true
women do write storys on men and women also think men dont have feelings or that men are dum and and thay are all it and smart and thes all bullshit

when women do this see women just like men are humman see women men have all the same feelings that women do

see and also women tell a man if he crys hes week like as if a man is not a humman how would women like to be told if she crys shes week
think about this see and one more thing all so nice guys women dont give the time of day

why is this see some men have realy good harts and in side thay are nice and realy do mean well and it comes from there hart

but yet women dont like nice guys and at the same time complane about how there man do them and say wish thay could find a nice guy

but when thay do find the nice guy thay thank oh hes lieing hes covering up something and wont give him the time to find out that he was not by taking the time to know him frest

so any way this is a bet off from what Chris has sead here but what he has sead here I agree with I would only aske this of any one

do not aske someone to do what you wont do your salf
tret one the way you want to be trted in life

and love some one for who thay are not what you want them to be and this gos for both women and men
and thanks Chris for this you dune a good job here now if women would just see it and stop looking for faltss in your words like as if thay dont have any
Bill

This article is right. When I met my girlfriend, I never asked myself, "Does everyone else like her?" Women who think that men will like them just because everyone else does are douche bags, plain and simple. A guy does not care if you're the most popular or most isolated.

The author here pretty much hit the nail on the here, mainly because he is clearly a man. Men are the biggest flirters also, as he points out. There was a woman named KAT who based Prince Christopher for his flirting theory in this article. But Chris responded with the correct answer. A man is only going to flirt with you if you have made him feel comfortable enough. And KAT points out the things she would do if she encountered a flirty man, but she does not realize that her comment does nothing to discredit Chris's argument. Chris is telling what men will do if they like you, NOT what a woman likes and dislikes.

I think that, for the most part, Prince Christopher is right. Men will ask a woman if she has a boyfriend, but not until the woman has made him comfortable enough to do so. A man wants to make sure a woman is interested, otherwise it's kind of embarassing to ask and be turned down within like 2 minutes. I think that's what Chris is trying to say in that area.

He said hello to me when I first knew he was there. He asked about my job. I said he could message me about it because it was the end of my shift and I couldn't talk longer. He said he lost the email the next day. He asked more about the job. He would sit close to me as he was asking. He would smile. Each time someone needed help he would stop talking, help them then go straight back to what he was talking about. I messaged him, he messaged me back saying thanks for letting him know about the job. Then I messaged him back saying your welcome basically. That was the last message I got from him.

Dear Girl,

Well, your case is kind of hard to explain. If you two are both around the same age and he said "Hello," to you first for no other reason than to just talk to you, he may be interested.

Also, the fact that he made sure to complete his conversations with you may also be a good sign. But this is what worries me, the fact that he has not spoken to you since. That's very, very unusual for a guy who likes you.

The next time you see him, get a conversation started with him, smile, and joke. If he likes you, he will respond the same right back. At that point, if you're interested, just ask him out. There's nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out at all.

Hope this was helpful.
Prince Christopher.

The articles I have read before about \"How to tell if a guy likes you\" made me feel good in hopes that the guy I am interested in actually does like me or is interested in me but they didn\'t quite give the answers I was looking for. In short, they didn\'t make home run!

I think asking a guy for something that only guys would know makes perfect sense and you explained key points in this article right to the point. It is definitely true that \"If you want to know about a man, ask a man.\"

Now, I came across your article searching for answers because I just met this guy who I like. I met him in a shop he works in. He is a foreigner. He was also the one who handled the products & services I needed for me. That was our first meeting. At first I thought he was gay, which was no problem for me because I have gay friends.

Before I left that day, he told me that I needed and should come back at least once every week for a month or two. I thought he was only trying to do suggestive selling, so I asked him why. He then told me that I should be getting other services aside from those I just took that day because it will be good for me. I then wondered and asked him of course how much all that would cost because if I would go there once every week it would definitely cost a lot of money. I was stunned when he said he\'d take care of it and that if I am interested I should make a commitment. Then I got a little confused, so I asked him again. He smiled and said that he said he\'d take care of it, I just needed to show up. I was flattered, a bit confused but flattered. I smiled, answered, \"ok\" and then left the shop.

I have been giving it some thought after that. And when I think about the offer he had made, how he is and how he moves, I thought, \"What the hell, it\'s probably ok. He seems a bit gay but he is very nice. He might just want to be good friends with me.\"

The following week, I remembered that I should be going back to that shop. But then I felt confused again about what happened the week before, so I decided to drop by their shop just to clear things out.

When I got there, they said he wasn\'t available yet and wait for a few minutes. Then, one of his co-workers came and talked to me. The co-worker, asked what I was doing there. So I said that I just dropped by to talk to \"my guy\" because I have a question to ask him. The co-worker smiled and said that he\'d be a few minutes and asked if I wanted coffee. I smiled and said, \"no, thank you\". The co-worker smiled back and was nice enough to accompany me a little then started to talk a bit about the shop and the people who worked there. I learned about how the shop started and where they got the name for it. I then interrupted her and asked her a little about \"my guy\". The co-worker said that he was very nice and that he has been going in and out of the country since he was very young. The co-worker even told me that they sometimes tease him, \"Hey, handsome.\" in a different language, and when they do, he just stays quiet, smiles and then nods at them. I then asked her, \"Why do you tease him \"handsome\"? Wouldn\'t he like to be called pretty instead?\" in a joking manner (hoping not give the idea that I am probing). The co-worker smiled and said,\" Yeah, he normally gets that, but he\'s definitely not gay. He\'s a guy.\" I was surprised but I kept calm and acted as if I wasn\'t surprised. Suddenly, \"my guy\" came walking towards me smiling. He sat beside me, then asked what I was doing there. And so I told him that I just wanted to make sure that I should really go back there and how much would it cost. He said, \" Ah!... I told you I\'d take care of it.\" He was smiling, so I smiled back at him. I said ok, and that I would come back the next day. He said ok, and that I should probably call before I go to check if he\'s busy or available. Then I said thank you to him and his co-worker and left.

After that, I began to wonder why he is doing it if he\'s not gay. Is he just being nice? Why?

Then, day came when I needed to come back to the shop. I called the shop to ask for \"my guy\" and if he\'s available. He answered the phone, and asked who I was, the disappointing part about that call was that he couldn\'t remember who I was, so i needed to describe myself to him. (I then remembered that at the two instances we talked, he gave me his name, but I wasn\'t able to give him mine.) When he got who I was, he said, \"Oh! Yes, yes.\" He told me that I can drop by there that day or the next day. So I told him that I\'ll drop by that day at about 8:30 in the evening after work. He said, ok and that he\'ll see me then.

When I got there, I looked for him but the receptionist said that he was still brushing his teeth, so I sat down and waited for him. When I then saw him walking towards me, he was smiling. He then then guided me to where I was supposed to seat. He took my bag, and asked if I would like him to keep that for me. I answered ok, so I followed him where he put my bag in a small locker gave me the key and asked me to keep it. When he left, his staff were really nice as we went on with business. After all of that, there was a time he then stood behind me to see how it all went. Unaware of what I was going to see, I faced a mirror on the wall just to see how I was looking. Surprisingly, he was looking at me and when our eyes met for a few seconds, he suddenly looked away. Then I thought, he\'s probably not into me. \"Why did he look away?\"

On our way to the reception area, I asked if I could get my bag back. He asked for the key and opened the locker for me.

Before I left, we were standing near the reception desk, when I asked him if i could talk to him. We moved a little to the side of the reception area to have a little privacy. He bowed down a little, as if getting his ear closer to hear me (because he\'s taller than me). And so, i asked him, \"Is this ok, me coming here like this? Wouldn\'t you be in any trouble?\" He smiled at me and answered, \"It\'s ok. I told you i\'ll take care of it.\" And so I looked at him and smiled back. I then gave him my calling card so he\'d know my name and how to call me and I also told him my nickname. He said thank you, smiled and said ok.

We walked back in front of the reception desk. I thanked him and tried to hand him a little something (a tip) but he got surprised and said, \"What this?! No, it\'s ok!\" But i insisted that it\'s the least that i could do. He smiled at me and suggested that he will just divide it to his assistants. I nodded my head, smiled and said ok. I then turned my back and left.

After that day and until now, I am trying to make sense of it all. First, I can\'t really understand why he is being nice to me? Which he could probably be doing to other people particularly women, but doesn\'t seem like it. Second, he didn\'t even know my name when I called, did he even try to find out? Third, he doesn\'t really chat with me about personal stuff, like about where I live, where I work, why do I go home late, etc. Fourth, I gave him my calling card, why doesn\'t he call? Or is he not calling because he doesn\'t have any reason to do so and wouldn\'t want to give himself away if he actually was interested in me? Lastly, I think i\'m going about this the wrong way, am i?

I hope you can share your thoughts on this.
Thank you.

Dear Yui

You said that during a phone call after you had met this guy, he could not remember you until you described yourself. Well, he clearly has more than just one woman (you) on his mind. However, the fact that you caught him looking at you, does mean he is studying you and possibly interested. The fact that he turned away quickly really does not mean that he doesn’t like you, he was just trying to not look weird. It sounds to me like he is interested, but not just in you. It sounds like he’s a big flirt. It’s no surprise that he has not yet talked to you about personal things, such as where you live. Most men today know that women are very uncomfortable giving out that kind of info to someone they hardly know.

If you gave him your calling card and he has not called you at all, things don’t look too good. Most of the time, if a guy really likes you and has your number, he will call. Now, if he has called many times with no answer, he will eventually stop. But if he has not called you at all, he may just be constantly busy or not interested in dedication to one woman.

In my opinion, I do not think you’re making mistakes, I just think he may not be as interested as you think. Then again, he may just be afraid that you do not like him that way. So, in this case, where there is no clear answer, I would suggest that you be blunt, but nice. Go to him in person, get him calmed and relaxed, and say, “Hey, You’ve treated me really nice and I like that. I like you too, but I can’t tell if you feel the same. So, are you interested in a relationship with me.”

NOW, here’s how to tell if he’s a cocky player or for real. If he has a lot of women and likes to play around, he will smile and be very laid back. He will act as though it’s no big deal at all. But if he acts serious and smiles with humility, you can count on his answer.

Let me know how it goes.
Love Prince Christopher.

Hi..I jsut want to ask what do you think about my situation.. I noticed this guy who always stares at me so boldly everytime I pass near him, even if Im with my boyfriend (ex now). At first I never pay attention to him but after some months I had a crush on him.. But he has a girlfriend.. now its been 3 years and he still looks at me everytime Im around..but we never talk to each other..we dont know each other personally..and now, whenever I catch him lloking he looks away.. so..what do you think?

Dear VAN,

If this guy still has a girlfriend and still checks you out when he sees you, that's normal. Every man and woman, regardless of who they're with or how long they've been with them, will check out other people.

If he is still with this girl, find out how good their relationship is. If it's unstable or if she has upset him bad enough, there's a good chance you could take him if you really want him. But if their relationship is a good one, he really loves her and she is fulfilling all his needs, he is probably not going to leave her.

Now, if he has no girlfriend and checks you out when he sees you, then he likes you. Plain and simple. Talk to him and be friendly. Men love a friendly woman. See how things go from there. Let me know how it goes or if I have not answered your question enough, email me at:

fanmailtochris@yahoo.com

Love,
Prince Christopher.

I'm in high school and I really like this uy but I'm also really shy and so is he...
Like in your first statement i do notice that he glances my way whenever I'm around and always seems to be somewhere where he can see me...
But thats it.. We never talk.. I'm too shy and I wouldn't know what to say. How do I know if he likes me without talking to him? Do you think he even likes me?

TO VAN\'S LATEST POST:

Dear Van,

If a guy is staring you down like you say, then he clearly finds you attractive, there\'s no question or doubt about that. And it\'s usually a natural reaction for a guy to look away when you catch him looking at you. Since so many predators and stalkers have given good guys a bad name, they don\'t want to seem weird by staring at you.

If he still stares at you now, he\'s clearly attracted. If you like him, talk to him. The fact that he has a girlfriend will be irrelevant if she is not fulfilling his wants and needs, especially if he\'s young. If his girlfriend is slacking in the areas that you can fulfill for him, you\'ll get him. Now I\'m not saying that every single man is like this, but most are.

Prince Christopher.

DEAR ELLY,

DEAR ELLY,

If all he does is glance your way and he does nothing else, you really won't know if he likes you until to talk to him. Don't get one of your girl friends to do it for you either. But, if he looks at you everytime you're around like you say, he probably does find you attractive.

You need to think about what you will say before you say it. A lot of high school guys are terribly shy. The next time he looks at you, smile and talk to him. That's probably what he wants. The worse case is that he says no, which isn't that bad. You've gotta take some risks. But if he finds you attractive and he's single, chances are, he won't say no.

My advice right now is to talk to him and let me know his reactions.

Prince Christopher.

Wow ur article really made me think,but i guess onli u wud knw since ur a guy and all first off i wana say it was very interesting and helpful to read ur article chris.

second of all,ive told my sister and sum frineds about this guy i really really like lol he works at the bank so i see him every so often,u knw when i need to be dere.but i jus feel as if my friends and family are not giving me the right or i guess enough advice i am wantin to know about my cruch ok well here it goes.

firstly im frm the uk and have bin here for 2 and a half years,and i meet dis guy for the first time at the bank,LOL,o yh mentioned that already huh?anyways sometimes i use to luk like a rite wreck and he wud c me and u kwn jus do his job and all,the reason i wud not luk so pleasent is cos i wud have gotten off wrk and stuff,anways he would help



me,not make much eye contact,or even smile but he wasnt rude jus professional u knw?i always thought he ws cute

then afta u knw i let it be and i saw him a couple of times,jus b cus the few times he saw me lukin like a hot mess does not mean outside of wrk i do not like to make an



effort wear makeup and do dat girly stuff,in fact i love it,so anyways i needed to sort sum stuff out at the bank i was wearing a black cotton casual dress with boots jus ma normal self wiv ma makeup how i always do it,sum how he managed to get the other employee to get him(the cruch) to help me instead of her,sumfink was wrnge with her system so he sed y dnt u help the next customer and ill help her so i was like ok,guess



hes the assitant manger or sumfink,but to be honest he cud have helped the other people and let her finish off with me but he choose not to,but i cud b wrnge(dats y i need ur help chris)and was sooo nice to me,he even smiled at me full on grin lol and kinnda



joked with me,and helped me with so much he kept saying sorry for wat had gne wrnge(wiv sum bank stuff which he did sort out)as i looked away,frm da corner of ma eye hes lookin at me as i turn towards him he luks away,and i kwn when i got up he was checkin me out,kinnda werid but i knw its expected of men,they are gona pay more attention to



you wen you luk nice,it ws jus weird hw he kinnda i guess changed not da he was eva horrible i cnat mke it out if he does really find me interestin and attractive,hes a



difficult one.i also noticed,as he was talkin to me he was looking right into my eyes(people always compiment my eyes,i guess for the first time he saw wat others see lol)man hes gorgeous lol,i saw him agian today walked past he looked up and smiled at me i



jus kept it casual and did da same,i dunno wat it is about him but im hooked,shud i talk more to him when i see him or what?do u think he likes me and is shy?there is no reason for him to be shy thou hes so well put togeva and always luks his best luk basically i dnt knw wat hes thinkin um adviceeeeeeeeeeee plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz thanks luv lol p,s its a u.k thing i wud appreciat it mwah xxx

Dear MARIA, before I say this, keep in mind that I am not a doctor or any kind of certified professional in this area, but I can give you my personal experiences and talk to you about it from a man's point of view, which was the whole point of my article.

My advice to you would be to talk to the guy more than you do. Most men know that a girl does not usually talk alot to them for no reason unless they like them or are really good friends. Every man has different tastes, so I cannot judge how attractive you are (but I am sure you're pretty), but if he is attracted to you and can keep an entirely professional manner as though he is not attracted to you, he is a very strong man, and he might me tough to break. You are right to think that men like women who look nice and have class. If you want to give a signal that you like him, don't come on too strong at first. Walk up, smile and just start a conversation with him. Trust me, men love friendly women. If he's checking you out on a regular basis, he likes you, but the problem may be that he thinks you don't or would not like him. So my first piece of advice would be to show him that you do like him. A man can tell when a woman likes him if she talks to him in the right way. Smile, look him in the eyes but don't stare him down, seem as though you are lost in him and he will be able to tell that you're interested. Let me know what goes from there.

Prince Christopher.