How to Recognize You are in a Controlled Love Relationship

Freedom is something that we all need and desire. Its a no wonder that almost all the constitutions in the world have a provision for it. No one should control a relationship and no one should allow someone to control their relationship. This is because when you allow someone to control what you do, it won't be long before you start seeking approval of everything you do. It does not necessarily mean you should not seek approval of your partner, you should. But if your partner keeps telling you what you can do and what you cannot you are in a Controlled love Relationship. Most of the time people who control their partners have a lot of insecurities to deal with. If your partner is doing any of these mentioned things you should know you are in a Controlled love Relationship.

A Controlled love Relationship is one where one mate has a say in everything you do. They control who you talk to. Most of the time they will dictate to you the friends you should talk to and the ones you should not. If you dared to go against your partners wish, he or she might become very violent. In some extreme cases a controlling partner might even ask you not to talk to members of your family. Your partner could give you and excuse that the members of your family do not like him or her much. This however should not be a reason enough for you not to talk to anyone.

A Controlled love Relationship is one where you have a specific time to reach home. If you reach a minute later you will have to account for the late time. Calling to tell your partner you will be late will not help much. Some people in Controlled love Relationships might think their partners love them. This is because the controlling partners wants to spend time with them. People who love you will give you a chance to be yourself, to be late when you can not help it and to let you stay by yourself sometimes. Every one needs an alone time sometimes.

A Controlled love Relationship is one where one partner dictates to the other where they can go and where they cannot go. Sometimes it goes to an extent of barring you from going to a place of worship. They are scared you might meet with someone and you might end up loving that person more than you love them. If you go there and they find out, there will be trouble waiting for you when you get back. They will do anything in their power including instilling fear in you so that you never go against their wishes. Do not stay in a Controlled love Relationship, you will only get out a wounded person. Go get help and if possible get help for your controlled partner. Convince your partner to go see a psychiatrist and have a wonderful relationship free from all controlling factors. You do not want to loose your sanity while in a Controlled love Relationship.