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How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
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what should i do
and one time before christamas break he kept on asking me all these weird questions like, do you shave and how much i weigh . and once he shook hands with me ((dont ask =) ))5. he flirts with a LOT of other girls, and i hate it =(
ugh ! help mee =((
any advice?
Please help me...I am having some major trouble trying to figure him out.
he moved away now he's back i he hugged me and i forget everything else that was going around
what does that mean?
haha thanks for reading my venting:)
thx
WHAT SHALL I DOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
So i'm really confused n stuff so if anyone can please tell me if you think he likes me or give me some advice i'd be soooo thankful.. :D
Me and this guy have pretty much been friends forever. Recently this easter holiday, we have been flirting. I mean major flirting. We're both 15, so i figured he wasnt going to be a kid about it. He wanted to meet up and i agreed, but i diddnt have his number so everything got a bit mucked up. The next time i saw him was two days later when school restarted, and he ignored me. He keeps ignoring me, but i think he likes me because of everything he said. I apologised for the whole date thing, but i diddnt get a response, and i dnot know what to do. I cant stop thinking about him. Help.
i really like this guy named zack. he's my close friend on myspace. i think he likes me too, but i'm not sure. he:
-yells at me when i think negatively about myself
-invites me to movies
-asks me how he can ask out a girl he likes (which i think is me)
-says his "friend" thinks i'm hot
-calls my his best friend
-makes comments like "you're so funny" and "i admire that you're so cool
all my friends say he likes me. does he?
that he likes me. hes a really nice guy but im not very sure hed be a good boyfriend. i dont think hed be very romantic by the
way his personality is but im not sure if theres a side of him that i havent seen yet. im not sure if i should ask him out cuz if
hes not a good boyfriend he mite hate me wen we brake up. thts wat happened with his other girlfriend. now they hate
eachother. should i ask him out?
today he hopes you no
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i really wanna date him. plz help!
I dont know what to do?!?!
LOLOLOLO,
I dont know if i should go out with him i mean i do like him a little but i dont want to tell her that i think i like him to because i dont want to loose her but i also dont want to keep a secreat from her and i also dont want to hurt her tough.
What should I do?????
talk to him girl!! it doesnt even have to be flirty, it just has to be nice and casual. just add a little friendly sentence in there like twice. trust me it will most likey work. and if that doesnt work, then sit next to him whenver u can. just make it seem like ur clingy. sit with him at lunch, or during free time stand next to him. make sure that wen he sees u, u make eye contact and smile sweetly and flirtely. and find out his favorite color and wear that color alot. if he likes a certain topic, then wen u talk to him next, focus more on that subject. and wen ur talking, say his name alot so that he feels like ur only focused on him. act like hese the only one in the room. good luck!!
and another guy does the same
but he isnt in my class
please help me im so comfused atm i reallly really like this guy but doe she like me what do u think please leav comment ! (L)
tell me how to be more outgoing so i can tell him i like him!PLEASE YOU HAVE TO HELP!!!1
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and he told me he kinda likes me, and then he told my friend for some reason that he likes me as a friend, we talk all the time, texting, IM, myspace, at school too, at school, when I'm walking and he is walking the other way he is always starring me down, it's kinda weird, but I like it for some reason, lol, but I don't know if he likes me or not HELPP!!
Naomi x
then there is this other guy, we have been best friends for a while... he is dating this girl, she hates me and i hate her. so it's ok... he is so cute and she is so ugly(no offense) he wears hollister and abercrombie, she wears skulls. all my friends say we should go out. and we even took compatibility tests in school, and we were number one on each other's. idk. i'm confused. there is this other guy that i wouldn't mind dating. but my best friend likes him. i have a way better chance than she does at getting him, but i don't want to hurt her. then there is guy. ahhh adam. he is so cute. but he is a PLAYER. he likes a girl for a long time, makes out with them, and never goes out. then moves on to the next girl. i don't want that to happen to me. so idk. there is guy 1-josh. 2-nick. 3-brandon. and 4-adam. i gave up on josh.. nick is my best friend.. so either brandon or adam. but nick flirts so much. idk some one help. i feel mean and annoying right now... ahh. i just hate it. i am 13. and i didn't even have my first boyfriend... ):
-He smiles at me all the time
-He looks at me when i pass
-We were joking round then like he left and i was talking to this other guy and when he came back he was all pissy! He didnt talk to me & he wouldnt even look me in the eye!
Help Me!!!!
. After a while that we were good friends he asked me out , but this was the first time ive gone out with someone, and soo after a week i broke up with him, and now that i am comfortable i feel like i can but after what happened i dont know what to do :( plus hes going out with this one girl. i told my friend that i like him at the dance and she told him while she was still going out with her so i got mad at her because its like he has to pick me or her. I know he still likes me tho because he will wave at me and look at me for a long time then when i look at him he just pretends he didnt do anything. he is the sweetest guy ive ever come upon and i dont know what to do, plz help me
thanks.
Well i told him that i liked him awhile back and hes coming out of two bad relationships. But he said maybe i could change his mind!!! I was soooo happy this was all through txt and at school he does not make eye contact with me i have looked up a cuple of times and he was looking at me but he barly looks at me???
IDK
I told him he could come over during april vacation and he said ya maybe???
What does this meen does he like me!!!
HELP :)
and if he tells you good nite at like 12 or just late at night. He use to like me when i was going out with his best friend, but i dont know if he still does or not..
can you please help?
do you think he likes me??
I think he likes me.
There's just one problem.
He's going out with my friend and she's really happy!!!
What do I do?
know why I just am and it's really hard to talk to him.
i need help because i like this boy he knows i like him and i dont know if he likes me.
he makes me laph hes always touching me. andim not sure. also whe hes near i turn red.
sometimes i think he likes me but im so not sure. plz talk im in trouble i eed him hes my only love in my school.
plz tell me what should i do?
♥confused♥
Delacruz:
Chemistry often returns, even if you have been separated. Meet once and you will know.
Miranda:
Read the column on how you know if he likes you. Invite him for coffee and watch his actions toward you.
Marissa:
He shows all the signs of liking you. Time for you to make a move. Invite him to do something and see how he reacts to you.
Kayla:
What is missing for you? Read some of the other articles on my website. www.singlesdatingtips.com
Fragile Heart:
Nothing to worry about - lots of guys don't like phone talk - is he warm and friendly with you? How about email? Tell him you deserve extra attention since he won't call.
Amber:
It is perfectly legitimate to ask him where he "is" in the relationship - what is your status as a couple?
reading this i am guessing now he gave me "a look" lol so yeah but i am excited beacuse i have liked him for a while now so
i am hopping he likes me back
sorry didnt mean to show off or anything
I've been in a similar situation myself.
how much older is he than you? I mean what is your age compared to his? It could be he was looking to only get sexual
and once he got it, he was mostly over you. But he might be embarrased.
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follow my steps (1) you hav to really love yourself and everthing about yourself be confident the way u hold urself carry urself just act as if your real important to important to look at a guy even if u fancy him trust me guys love this they will come running to u xxx
But it turned out he just wanted to see me , i think his really hot we end up kissing that night and laying in bed we were really close i really liek him and i promised this boy who helped me that ngiht that i would tell this boy how i felt , im just not strong enough. & im afraid ill get let down and rejected.
he doesn't bother talking to me much and flirts with other girls.
i dont know what to do!?!
Does that guy like me???
I NEED HELP!!!!
this is my promblem
well i have this friend and she has a older
borther and her brother is always txt me telling
me that he likes me and he wants to see me and he
wants to go out with me.one day i saw him
and he was telling me how i felt about him and
i told him i like him and he told me that he
really likes me 2 and we stood quiet for a minuet
thinking and he asked me a question if i would
mind if he kissed me and i said yes and we got
sexuall and we did it but ever since then we
havent been talking to each other we do now but
not as much as before i want 2 ask him if he still
likes me but i am to emberrased please tell me if
he likes me or not
ive known this guy for 3 months now. he is in most of my classes at school.
he always comes up and sits next to me all the time in class and randomaly at lunch we always make each other laugh and we always sit really close.
all my other guy friends says that he likes me but he always denies this.
do you think he likes me or do you think he is just trying to be a good friend?
thankyou
if it was just a ''friend'' thing, or if he likes me!!
but he keeps teasing me,making fun of my friends and soo much more..
but seriously,i HATE IT!!!!
help meeee!!!
ASAP!!
>=
Here are my 5 pointers
1. Staring:
if he constantly stares at you, and you happen to see this out of the corner of your eye, he has an interest (doesn't mean he likes you) and is either perverted (lol) or has a sorta sense that finds you out of the crowd (awesomeness)
2. Chatting:
if he truly likes (yes, onto the next level baby!) you, then he will go out of his schedule to have a talk with you, not just to know more about you, but build onto the bond you might already have, or give it a kick start!
3. Dating:
yes, this is going by fast, I skipped some steps because I would get you to read this part first...
Once your certain he at least knows who you are, and you are good friends, ask him out on a date! (I know this is coming from a guy, and you don't wanna ruin the tradition of the guy asking out the girl, but, heh, my second girl friend was the one who asked me out for the first time!) simple as that! yes or no answer, you have nothing to worry about! someone has gotta make the first move anyways!!
4. Humor:
You will notice that he will occasionally tell the dumbest joke ever, and you will laugh because you want to be polite, right? well, a common trick between guys is to purposely tell a dumb joke and get you to laugh, if you laugh, they assume you like him, if you don't, he will try again later (were persistent little buggers, aren't we?)
so, laugh at some, and don't laugh at others! What does this have to do with finding out you ask? If he tries this persistently, he likes you...
5. Flirting
Most say girls are the ones that love to flirt (sexist communists), but guys like to just as much as you know! Most guys are too shy to start flirting (not me!), so you are gonna have to start something... like maybe a little bit of wrestling (be careful, strong guys like to get carried away), or even just make up little jokes about him (not too harsh though, and be warned that, as stated before, guys like to flirt too, so he will find comebacks!!!)
hope this helps ladies!!
btw: If you know a bit about computers and websites and crap, can you make this a wiki? haha ;)
I Like this Guy in anther Class and I really like him, His sweet & nice though he is really Shy i told one of my friends cuz shes my best friend & i can trust her ;D. And he is Quiet & im loud btw ;D. And i like thinking that Opposites are awesome.
2days ago i was about to ask him out.
I went up nxt to him and was like Hey... and I couldnt do it i was afraid of the rejection and so I was jst like Hey can i have a hi-5 lamee i noe but thats how my feelings started I always Asked him for Hi-5's.
HiS an awesome guy and i noe he will never hurt me cuz he is really nice. and every day after skool I say to my self Dont worry Ill ask him out 2morrow but its hard. so very hard i jst duno what to do I LOVE HIM SO MUCH and ive never likes sumone as much ;s
everyday i put myself to sleep thinking about how my life would change with him in my life and It LOOOKS PRETTY AWESOMEE! ;D
and every time i want to ask him out his with his Friends so i always do it after school when he picks up his lil brother.
My plan is to ask for his diary and put my birthday in it cuz its pretty soon and on my birthday i will say to him "what are you goanna give me for my birthday" and yea
Cause we have a connection that is speacial ;D