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How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
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and one time before christamas break he kept on asking me all these weird questions like, do you shave and how much i weigh . and once he shook hands with me ((dont ask =) ))5. he flirts with a LOT of other girls, and i hate it =(
ugh ! help mee =((
any advice?
Please help me...I am having some major trouble trying to figure him out.
he moved away now he's back i he hugged me and i forget everything else that was going around
what does that mean?
haha thanks for reading my venting:)
thx
WHAT SHALL I DOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me and this guy have pretty much been friends forever. Recently this easter holiday, we have been flirting. I mean major flirting. We're both 15, so i figured he wasnt going to be a kid about it. He wanted to meet up and i agreed, but i diddnt have his number so everything got a bit mucked up. The next time i saw him was two days later when school restarted, and he ignored me. He keeps ignoring me, but i think he likes me because of everything he said. I apologised for the whole date thing, but i diddnt get a response, and i dnot know what to do. I cant stop thinking about him. Help.
i really like this guy named zack. he's my close friend on myspace. i think he likes me too, but i'm not sure. he:
-yells at me when i think negatively about myself
-invites me to movies
-asks me how he can ask out a girl he likes (which i think is me)
-says his "friend" thinks i'm hot
-calls my his best friend
-makes comments like "you're so funny" and "i admire that you're so cool
all my friends say he likes me. does he?
that he likes me. hes a really nice guy but im not very sure hed be a good boyfriend. i dont think hed be very romantic by the
way his personality is but im not sure if theres a side of him that i havent seen yet. im not sure if i should ask him out cuz if
hes not a good boyfriend he mite hate me wen we brake up. thts wat happened with his other girlfriend. now they hate
eachother. should i ask him out?
today he hopes you no
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i really wanna date him. plz help!
talk to him girl!! it doesnt even have to be flirty, it just has to be nice and casual. just add a little friendly sentence in there like twice. trust me it will most likey work. and if that doesnt work, then sit next to him whenver u can. just make it seem like ur clingy. sit with him at lunch, or during free time stand next to him. make sure that wen he sees u, u make eye contact and smile sweetly and flirtely. and find out his favorite color and wear that color alot. if he likes a certain topic, then wen u talk to him next, focus more on that subject. and wen ur talking, say his name alot so that he feels like ur only focused on him. act like hese the only one in the room. good luck!!
and another guy does the same
but he isnt in my class
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then there is this other guy, we have been best friends for a while... he is dating this girl, she hates me and i hate her. so it's ok... he is so cute and she is so ugly(no offense) he wears hollister and abercrombie, she wears skulls. all my friends say we should go out. and we even took compatibility tests in school, and we were number one on each other's. idk. i'm confused. there is this other guy that i wouldn't mind dating. but my best friend likes him. i have a way better chance than she does at getting him, but i don't want to hurt her. then there is guy. ahhh adam. he is so cute. but he is a PLAYER. he likes a girl for a long time, makes out with them, and never goes out. then moves on to the next girl. i don't want that to happen to me. so idk. there is guy 1-josh. 2-nick. 3-brandon. and 4-adam. i gave up on josh.. nick is my best friend.. so either brandon or adam. but nick flirts so much. idk some one help. i feel mean and annoying right now... ahh. i just hate it. i am 13. and i didn't even have my first boyfriend... ):
-He smiles at me all the time
-He looks at me when i pass
-We were joking round then like he left and i was talking to this other guy and when he came back he was all pissy! He didnt talk to me & he wouldnt even look me in the eye!
Help Me!!!!
. After a while that we were good friends he asked me out , but this was the first time ive gone out with someone, and soo after a week i broke up with him, and now that i am comfortable i feel like i can but after what happened i dont know what to do :( plus hes going out with this one girl. i told my friend that i like him at the dance and she told him while she was still going out with her so i got mad at her because its like he has to pick me or her. I know he still likes me tho because he will wave at me and look at me for a long time then when i look at him he just pretends he didnt do anything. he is the sweetest guy ive ever come upon and i dont know what to do, plz help me
thanks.
Well i told him that i liked him awhile back and hes coming out of two bad relationships. But he said maybe i could change his mind!!! I was soooo happy this was all through txt and at school he does not make eye contact with me i have looked up a cuple of times and he was looking at me but he barly looks at me???
IDK
I told him he could come over during april vacation and he said ya maybe???
What does this meen does he like me!!!
HELP :)
I think he likes me.
There's just one problem.
He's going out with my friend and she's really happy!!!
What do I do?
♥confused♥
Delacruz:
Chemistry often returns, even if you have been separated. Meet once and you will know.
Miranda:
Read the column on how you know if he likes you. Invite him for coffee and watch his actions toward you.
Marissa:
He shows all the signs of liking you. Time for you to make a move. Invite him to do something and see how he reacts to you.
Kayla:
What is missing for you? Read some of the other articles on my website. www.singlesdatingtips.com
Fragile Heart:
Nothing to worry about - lots of guys don't like phone talk - is he warm and friendly with you? How about email? Tell him you deserve extra attention since he won't call.
Amber:
It is perfectly legitimate to ask him where he "is" in the relationship - what is your status as a couple?
reading this i am guessing now he gave me "a look" lol so yeah but i am excited beacuse i have liked him for a while now so
i am hopping he likes me back
sorry didnt mean to show off or anything
I've been in a similar situation myself.
how much older is he than you? I mean what is your age compared to his? It could be he was looking to only get sexual
and once he got it, he was mostly over you. But he might be embarrased.
Email me- TheFray1317@yahoo.com
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this is my promblem
well i have this friend and she has a older
borther and her brother is always txt me telling
me that he likes me and he wants to see me and he
wants to go out with me.one day i saw him
and he was telling me how i felt about him and
i told him i like him and he told me that he
really likes me 2 and we stood quiet for a minuet
thinking and he asked me a question if i would
mind if he kissed me and i said yes and we got
sexuall and we did it but ever since then we
havent been talking to each other we do now but
not as much as before i want 2 ask him if he still
likes me but i am to emberrased please tell me if
he likes me or not
ive known this guy for 3 months now. he is in most of my classes at school.
he always comes up and sits next to me all the time in class and randomaly at lunch we always make each other laugh and we always sit really close.
all my other guy friends says that he likes me but he always denies this.
do you think he likes me or do you think he is just trying to be a good friend?
thankyou
theres this guy that i like and ive never talke 2 him really except in an art class once.
i think he is rlle cute. sometimes i think he is looking at me but it might only be that i want him 2 look at me and im imagining it!
What should i do coz i rlle want to be his gf. (im in year7 by the way)
advice please,
thanx xx
He talks to me outside of classes, but in school he acts as if we are strangers.
He never comes near me but outside of school he'll be annoying the heck out of me.
BUT LATELY- he's been coming near me, talking to me, and strangely I feel as if "he knows" i like him. (it's sort of a forbidden crush, cause all my friends hate his guts cause he's a prep and all my friends are emo punks) DO YOU think he likes me?
how to begin with? there is a guy that i really like. I dunno if I love him or I just like him a lot, I had never fall in love but whenever I see him I just light up and blush a lot and his classmates are always picking on us. I met him cause we took a french course together but I wasn`t really into him but he was a sweetheart to me but I was interestered in other guy. During the holidays I discover I really like my french mate but I don`t know if he likes me back. yesterday i got a letter from him but isn`t like that romantic is more friendly. How can I know he likes me too?. I would really like to know if he likes me back because I really do like him a lot and I would like him to be mine.
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ok.
im only 13 but i feel so outa place b.c everyone in my school is going out w/ people.....i like this guy named davis, in health we sat next to eachother and we would flirt back and forth. but now we are in totally seperat clases and i still like him alot and i really want to go out with him but im scared to ask b.c we hardly talk anymore and idk if he still likes me. how to i get him to notice me without seeming to obvious?
I'm really not sure if he likes me, or if he's just excited about his first phone, but I don't wanna go out with him! Help me!
-he always texts me - he asked me to the movies -he hugs me all the time
- he lets me borror money and not pay him back lol
-Sits really close to me when im by him -never says anything mean to me
-really really nice to me
-asked for my #
do u think he likes me?? help!!! i really like him alot!!!!!!
always talking to me and I don't knowif he just wants to be friend or or what? advice
plz
but idk if he likes me,
i hope he does,,
anyone wanna help me with this?
this article actually really helped a lot!!
thanks =]
here is the story last year my best guy friend went out with my best friend even when my best friend knew that i like him and they were off an on for months but he would always talk to me more and be around me more than anyone else, i knew he liked me but i didnt know why he didnt break up wit my best friend for me. and so the last week of school he asked me out on this game called zap but i didnt know it was zap and so i said yes. but when i found out i went up to him and was like do u like me and he was blushing super red! and i was like if u dont like me i will only break up wit u and then he was like so its over and i was like no. and then i turned around and i saw through the corner of my eye he nodded his head yes becasue he did like me. but a few moments later his friend came over telling me that it was over between me and him and i was like okay. but after that he came over and dumped water on me like we would do normally like not going out. and we were friends again, but the next day he asked for my #!! and i gave it to him and he called me one time only one. and at the beginning of this year it was his b-day so i made him a card like a good friend would do and he told one of my friends that i still liked him when at that time i liked someone else. and he started to talk about me behind my back and being mean and so one day i was like im mad at you and then he started calling me names but he was kidding. but i got soo mad. and then people starting making rumors that i hated him wich i didnt and dont. and so we didnt talk to each other but we would always make eye contact. and now he moved and he didnt even tell me he was moving i had to hear from other people!! and know im sad and want him to be my best friend again and i dont know why! some advice plz!!
FACT: i like him for a year now i really wonna go out with him
help please! feel free to email me!
thanks! :)
He came over my house saturday night and slept over because of my brother's birthday but he seemed like he was there to see me. He would want to watch a movie with me, when the other kids played he watched a movie with me instead, and my friend who sat next to me claimed when we watched the movie, he looked at me more than the movie.
I don't like asking guys out, but I don't want to be pushy. I am a pushy person but i've never had a boyfriend before.
Help?
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I emailed him a while back, told him how i felt, he replied saying not to worry because he felt the same, so i was over the moon, but then his friend (who i also met in summer) was texting me and told me that he's now with this other girl.
But apparently whenever they ask him about her he avoids the subject, but apparently whenever i'm mentioned, he will talk about me for ages. Apparently he talks about me all the time, and where we met (at a camp).
He acts the same as he did when he officially liked me, but he apparently told some of his mates (that im not sure i can trust..) that he only liked her.
I don't get what his game is. :
Help please?
please please please???
xxx
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