How to Tell if an Online Dater is Interested

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Don't you hate it when you send a prospective date a message and they don't bother to respond? How frustrating, not to mention a waste of you time. It's the new equivalent of sitting by the phone waiting for it to ring. This can be a problem with some online dating sites. How do you know if they actually received your message?

In fact, that's what I want to talk about. Even though online dating is so much safer and secure these days, some sites just don't get it. The two most common complaints are either the service is poor or you pay for a membership to an online dating site that has 23 members but you thought they had 23,000. Well, that used to be the case. Now, service levels on online dating sites are becoming sophisticated.

Here's what I mean. When you make contact or attempt to make contact with someone through an online dating site you expect a reply. If you don't get one, you might think that that person didn't like your profile, picture or maybe it was that certificate you obtained in advanced cannibalism. Joking! On the other hand, maybe that person didn't get it yet or is no longer a member. There are many reasons. My point is – don't get upset, it can happen.

More importantly, when you do get a reply, you'd like to think that it was real and written specifically for you...right? Some aren't! That's right. There are some lazy members who have many accounts with many online dating sites who think they are clever by cut and pasting their responses and posting them on all of their profiles on many sites. Fortunately, these responses are not hard to pick. So you really don't want these lazy members for a date or for that matter…anything!

On the other hand, you may get a reply which is pleasant and there are a couple of points made in their reply that take your interest. Reply to them and make it known that you have an interest in those areas too. You should ask questions on those topics. Get the conversation started. Stimulate the communication and peel back the layers to see what in fact you've got hold of. It might just be the right partner.

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