You won't need complex pick up lines. Send the correct gesture and you should be put for the night.
As you are in a standing position
1. You require having eye contact.
It can be a easier said than done thing to do when you really like the guy. You can also gaze at him until he notices that you are looking at him. Do this when you are seated or standing up while talking with people
2. Hands on one of your hips.
Having a hand on your hip shows that you are open and relax. It encourages your target man to come up to. Be careful not stand or sit while the guy is at your back. I have made that mistake once and I regret it today still. He never came to talk to me.
3. Transfer your body weight on one hip.
Position your body weight on one side of your body. You will be perceived as you are not ready to go anywhere else and receptive to anybody who comes your way.
You can rest your back on a wall (alone preferably) also showing also that you are not going anywhere.
However, you can be perceived as bored and "waiting" for some prince charming to come and rescue you from boredom. It has work well for me a few times.
While you are walking
1. Your fingers have to to be hanging soft and relaxed. Not curled up or kept as a fist as if you were ready for a boxing fight. Inquire to a trusting friend to watch and help you make the necessary corrections.
2. Keep your shoulders square. It is very important because you must look as if you are comfortable in your skin. It's also instant thinning; you look at least 5 pounds lighter and younger when your back spine is well erected
3. Swing those womanly hips. Swing your hips as a relaxed and confident cat walk. Pretend in your head that you are that top model whatever body shape you have. It's the out most powerful body language flirting signal that you can send to men. My male friends notice that all the time.
I have a convincing story;
My sister was living on a campus in France. She had a co-ed who had generous curves. As her natural way of walking, she was swinging her hips.
Guys were telling my sister that she was triggering deep reactions because of her natural catwalk. Even though she was a bit overweight, she was sending a mating signal. Men were mesmerized without her even knowing it.
Knowing this now, you can try to follow an imaginary straight line as you walk for body language flirting
When you are seated
1. Your legs crossed.
This is a position useful when your foot is pointed towards your target man. He'll feel invited. You can help out things a little bit by inviting him to come and join you.
2. Play with your hair.
Toss with them when they fall on your face. You can even have a haircut on your bangs made to have the opportunity to move your hair around. It's all about strategies, lady!
3. Sit, lean you back on the chair. Relax. Smile and look in the eyes.
It's all about being relaxed and accessible. That way, you are making a powerful impression.
Your guy should know by now that you are attracted to him. He also should know that he can come and talk with you. As he walks to you, smile. Look at him straight in the eye while smiling.
Afterwards, as you are chatting with him, keep looking at him in the eyes and smile.
By the end of the evening, you should get a phone number to put in your dating black book or your calendar.
A boring single life should be over in a short while.
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