KNOWING GOD’S WILL IN LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

This is one of the areas that Satan is cheating the body of Christ today. Satan knows that well all want to do God’s will so he plays around with our ignorance if you want to refuse a certain brother because you are not sufficiently attracted to him or you do not love him enough to be his wife, Satan says :do you want to disobey God and miss his perfect will for your life, do you want to accept a second best and regret in the future? you listen to him and start feeling condemned and afraid. Condemned in the sense that in reality, you cannot see yourself marrying that brother, not out of hatred or necessity pride or other things the devil may accuse you of but you cannot respect enough as a husband. Will you then disobey god? Fear creeps in because you do not want to disobey God and end up in regrets like the numerous families you know of or have heard of who are living in perpetual sorrow. Confusion then sets in what will you set you free? Very simple, you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. John 8:32.
Some say you should just leave your mind open and accept whoever god chooses for you, short or tall, dark or fair, educated or illiterate, blind or lame and so on. You are taught not to argue with god, neither should you set your own standards. You should not have any picture in your heart of kind of person that you want which is equated to having an idol in your heart. Just leave yourself open to argue that God will reveal to you or give you to you.  I must warn you that this is pure religion and foolishness. It is not base on the surface but they are the greatest open doors to deceit from Satan.
My friend, wisdom is the principal thing, without it, you will suffer unnecessarily. Will you pray about every sister you see or just keep saying “God, out of all the sisters in the whole world, reveal my own wife to me. Or if you a sister will you do the same and pray about single brother who moves near you? Then for some sisters, they will probably have nothing else to pray about for many years of their lives because so many brothers are always interested in them and it is said in a pretensions spiritual language “they are led by the spirit of God” wisdom tells us that prayer becomes necessary only when we meet someone to whom (for one reason or the other), we are attracted to, based, on certain personal criteria, and do not find easy to discard from our minds.