"The object of all life is development; and everything that lives has an inalienable right to all the development it is capable of attaining. Man's right to life means his right to have the free and unrestricted use of all the things which may be necessary to his fullest mental, spiritual, and physical unfoldment; or, in other words, his right to be rich." From The Science Of Getting Rich By Wallace Wattles
This extract from the science of getting rich is to talk about what you do have the right to have. Do you deserve to be with a woman (or man) that you truly desire? Do you deserve to be in love? Do you deserve to have a fun dating experience?
The goal of life itself is to evolve. To become better and better at what you do, at how you live, at how happy you are; so of course, your relationships or dating life would have to be included as well.
Since life's goals is evolvement and YOU are a part of life, therefore self improvement and personal development is not only natural to you it would make you happier as you are fulfilling a part of your genetic programming to evolve.
What does it mean to get better at dating?
First of all, learn from everything that happens on your date. After your date review everything that happened and decide how you could have done something better, or received an idea with more openness or were too slow to reject an idea to begin with.
Second, Read. Read several books and websites on dating. Go over flirting, body language, conversation starters, maintaining interest, safety, etc. Don't assume you can figure everything out for yourself with what you have. Everybody needs information to make an informed decision. I am emphasizing this because I know many people who think they know what they are doing but are essentially making a decision based on a daydream. Even a little bit of research would reveal that most of their assumptions are wrong or inappropriate, of just plain bizarre. Know this. Men and women ARE separate species. At least, that is the way you should approach learning about the opposite sex, without assumption, as if learning about them for the very first time.
Quite simply, it is your birthright to have the kind of dating and relationship experience that will make you truly happy. It may be that you do not know what will make you happy, or that you may have to work on yourself first before you attract the best date for you.
Don't give up on dating or finding a good relationship simply because you have had some bad experiences. Don't expect the perfect mate to come along on the very next date. Simply enjoy the dating experience with each person and learn from it till you too "break free" to the dating and relationship life that you truly desire.
Know that it is your birthright to life the dating and relationship lifestyle that will make you happy. You can make a difference by improving yourself, by learning about the opposite sex, by being optimistic and trusting that each experience is helping you learn more so you can claim your birthright.
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Trying to figure out where I am in a relationship.Been with a girl for 2 years, had our problems with trust in the last 8 months, basically that she was flirting with other guys and I was worried she would cheat on me. Then she did with her co-worker and then she told me about it, just a little bit at a time. We had been planning a river rafting trip together (on which I was thinking of asking her to marry me), I was kind of uninvited, so I took a road trip with my son who is 3 (I'm 25) and ended in my hometown of Seattle. Along the way I found out I got into Grad, school and was very exited so I never went back down. I actually heard about getting into school while I was in rehab for marijuana that her and I had smoked habitually. She said she was so proud of me and loved me so much, and then I wrote her long letters and felt myself loving her. When she brought up Leni I tried to ask about what was going on with them and she got all upset and it seemed obvious to me that they were fooling around with each other. Then recently I met a girl at a festival who was very cool, but lives in a different city, so we exchanged things over the internet and in the process I changed my myspace thing to single. Then the girl i had been with for 2 years writes me emails freaking out about this, and I bluntly tell her the truth that I met a girl and wanted her to know the reality of my situation that I live alone with my son, and am not in a family unit. Then she calls screaming and crying and I end up telling her I love her, which I do, and end up making plans for her to come visit, and making plans for us to get back together in 6 months. I love this girl and I know she loves me, but I don't understand why she pushed me away and I'm concerned she may have too many issues to deal with. Any advice?
My plan for becoming Miley Cyrus's Boyfriend...What's your opinion?
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What is your opinion on this? Do you think it will work or not work? Why or why not? Here it goes. Say I go to the Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus concert in Worcester, MA this year and hand Hannah a bunch of flowers after the last song. On the flowers is a note to that asks if Miley could meet me outside the building after all the fans have left. On the note, I ask her to spend just 5 MINUTES with me. Near the end of my little VIP session, I kiss her. Do you think that this will work on not. Why or why not? P.S. No hate posts saying that Miley is all yours. If you do I just might drive by 'yalls neighborhood with some of my homies!
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By: joygirl613 | 05-09-2007
Ok recently i really liked this guy... And lately he's been more flirty than usual and it made me feal like this might actually work, and i was all happy and excited... but suddenly a little while later i wasn't really that intrested anymore and i didn't understand why?? And then i relized this isn't the first time ive felt like this.. Any Answers?
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