With over 16 years of experience as a professional matchmaker working exclusively for the nation's most successful men, Janis Spindel has a unique insider's perspective on contemporary dating. Her clients tell her exactly what they want in a relationship, in the process revealing the secrets to the male brain.
Matchmaker Janis Spindel knows you ladies have it all. You have looks, smarts, success but just can’t seem to find a man who appreciates what you have to offer.
The answer to that question is men, older men, are not looking for trophy wives. The men that I deal with in my matchmaking service all are commitment minded, well groomed and well educated and are picky.
Men are looking for the 4 B’s. They are looking for Beauty, Brains, a Body and Balance. If, and only if, you have the 4 B’s, and you take care of your body and lead a healthy life style, have confidence and personality, etc., then you should not have a problem finding the right man.
The men are out there. The question is: are you emotionally available. Does your body language say, “Hey, I want to meet a man?” Or, are you intimidating by not having them go anywhere near you when you are in a social situation.
If you are age appropriate, let’s say age 32, and you want to meet a man over 40, do you have any idea where to look?
This is the 64,000 question ladies. So pay close attention.
Men Are Everywhere!!! It could be at the parking garage, it could be at Starbucks waiting on line, it could be at the supermarket. It could be at a sporting event. It could be at a shoe shine place.
Ladies, it’s very simple. Here is my secret formula: Smile and say “Hello.” Take my hello challenge. Approach 6 men this week and smile at them and say “Hello.”
That’s it. If you do this, you will get results.
Best, Janis www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
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