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Online Dating - 10 Rules Everyone Should Know

Author: Aelicia Anderson Author Ranking Blue | Posted: 16-12-2007 | Comments: 0 | Views: 20 | Rating:  (57) Article Popularity - Blue (?) Got a Question? Ask.
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Online dating is the wave of the future for busy professionals, returnees to the social dating scene, and those who are starting a new career. Whether you just want to try a chat room or have already seen some profiles that interest you, there are ten rules about online dating that every web surfer should know.

1. Plan ahead

Are you looking to just spend some time entertaining yourself in chat rooms? Looking for someone to hang out with on the weekends? Seeking a one night stand? Trying to find Mr. or Ms. Right? Determine your goals for online dating and stick to them - otherwise you might hurt the feelings of others or find yourself scraping up the pieces of another failed relationship.

2. Ask your friends

Many people are finding their relationships with online dating. You'll be surprised to find out that your friends are spending time in chat rooms and sorting through profiles. Ask them what works, and what sites to use. The best advice comes from someone you trust.

3. Pace yourself

Take your time getting to know someone as well as possible. This may mean that at least a phone call is in order. Don't let the other person pressure you into a face-to-face meeting too soon when you are not fully comfortable with the situation.

4. Tell the truth!

If you really want to experience success with an online dating site, you must be honest. While you cannot control the actions of others, maintaining accountability to yourself will thwart the temptation to attach someone else's picture to your profile or lie about your past.

5. Organize and prioritise

Online dating can be overwhelming. It's a lot easier to browse profiles of individuals that you know are looking for a relationship than to strike up a conversation with someone at the bar. Choose a few of the most interesting profiles, take notes, and limit yourself to corresponding with them at first. You can always look again if they don't work out, and this will avoid too much activity and confusing emotions.

6. Not all text is truth

Unfortunately, not everyone will be as honest as you are. It's acceptable to ask for references and check out verifiable information before agreeing to set up a face-to-face meeting. Don't be afraid to ask for background checks or consult public records.

7. Remember courtesy in the chat room

That old adage "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" still applies to online dating. Chat rooms often give people a sense of invincibility. When the fingers start flying, things tend to move fast and have the potential to get steamy. Stop. Think. If you wouldn't say it to a complete stranger face-to-face, don't say it at all.

8. Paying for an online dating service might not be so bad

It is a good idea to invest in you! There are many online dating services that charge a membership fee. Considering that people who are willing to pay for a service might be more serious about who they are and what they want - leading to better relationships.

9. Be timely

Don't have access to the internet everyday? This might cause problems in the online dating world. Those who try this method of socialization like to think they'll receive quick responses. Be available, consider setting aside a specific time to spend in the chat room, and respond to emails in a timely fashion. Otherwise, you might find your potentials losing interest.

10. Remember to keep safe

If your online dating experience is going well, the time will come for you to meet someone face-to-face. Keep your meeting public, and take charge of your own well-being by driving yourself. It's certainly acceptable to have a friend nearby for backup if you are really nervous. Use caution on the first date, and as many subsequent times as it takes for you to feel comfortable.

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For 8 years Albreda Anderson has written an online dating advice column. Recently she has become one of the leading forces behind the new Australian dating site FlingFinder.

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