Prehistoric Dating Was Simpler Than Online Dating

In prehistoric times, dating was simple. One looked for the attributes desired in a mate - women looked for good providers and men looked for . . whatever it is that men look for. If Snarg was good with a spear, he received a lot of interest from the ladies, and if Bambi had good, child-bearing hips, the spear wielders of the clan set about to win her heart. And hopefully they didn't kill each other in the process. But the modern world has presented us with a conundrum; spear wielders can Photoshop themselves standing on the carcass of King Mammoth, and childbearing hip wielders can show a little cleavage and use their weight from high school. It's just a little white lie, right? Well, some of us just don't have the time or patience to play elimination games. I myself have driven nearly 100 miles to meet a healthy (not skinny) potential soulmate, only to find that she'd neglected to admit the 100 lbs of weight gain since the photo was taken, and that the ASPCA was on the way to take at least 40 of her cats, leaving her with only 15 for company. And if someone is unwilling or unable to be truthful at the superficial beginning of a relationship, what are they going to be like 10 years down the road? Are they going to be truthful about who the father of your child is? Why do this to yourself - you deserve better! People spend time researching all kinds of crass personal items - cell phones, cars, etc. , or they read articles about research done on these items. They are letting others do the legwork, while reserving the final decision for themselves. And really, why should dating be different? There are over 3 billion people of the opposite sex out there (or same sex, if that's your orientation), and you dramatically decrease your odds of finding the keepers if you don't enlist help. That's where a matchmaker comes in. A matchmaker has the skills and resources to find in weeks what would take the average person more then a lifetime to look through. They may be able to see the qualities in others that you desire in a mate, even if you don't. The can eliminate the chaff and connect you with only the wheat, saving you time, money, and heartache. And even if one doesn't work out, they can find a new match within minutes, eliminating all those trips to singles bars. In modern life, we hire professionals to do the things we need help with - fix our plumbing, write a will, or even find insurance. Hire a professional matchmaker, and years from now, when it's just you and him/her by the fireplace, you'll be glad you did.