Serious Matchmaking Inc. Q&A GETTING MEN TO NOTICE YOU!

Matchmaker Janis Spindel replies – They won't!

The fact is that men are intimidated by pretty women.  When a man sees a woman who is attractive and confident, he will notice her and smile at her, but typically they won’t take it to the next step.  That’s why I recommend women read my book and do what I call the “Hello Challenge.”

Women need to take the initiative to smile and simply say “hello.”  So if, for example, a woman is on an airplane and happens to be sitting next to a good-looking man, start by smiling and saying hello.  She should start talking to him about where they are flying to and where they are flying from.  So, if they are heading to California, she can simply say, in a flirtatious way, “do you live in California or are you from Chicago (where they are flying from)?”  Trust me, once she starts the conversation, the man will take over if he happens to be interested, but let him take the next step.

The first thing a woman needs to do is check his left hand to see if there is a wedding band.  If he is smiling at her, and he does in fact have a wedding band, then she needs to start another conversation.  While it may be annoying, she definitely does not want to get involved and go down that road!  One thing she could say is, “so how come your wife doesn’t travel with you when you travel on business?”

Men are so clueless that he probably won’t even realize that he has a wedding band on.  He will likely look at her and say, “Wow, how did you know I was married?  Do I have it written all over my face?”

Then she can start a conversation with him because he just might have a single brother, friend, or co-worker or even know someone who is recently divorced.

Women need to keep a lot of things in mind!  The most important thing is to network!  Women need to ask everyone they come in contact with if they know a guy who could be perfect for her.

Like I said, men are intimidated by pretty women.  He might smile at her and make eye contact, but then he might just walk away.  I deal with that every day of the week!

If I asked 100 men to take a survey and asked them how many of them would approach a pretty woman, I would say that about 99 out of 100 would say nope, not me!

Men love confident women, so those women should read my blogs and watch some of my videos to see just how easy it is to simply go up to a man and start a conversation.

If a man and a woman end up in a relationship, he will think that he met her first.  Trust me; I’ve been living it for years!

Best,

Janis

www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com