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Should You Use This Technique to Pick Up Women?

Salesmen are widely considered to be the best at persuading folks to purchase products. If you pay attention to their techniques, you can learn a lot about human nature and how to influence other people.

In fact, one technique is so effective it could become your secret weapon to increasing your chances of setting up dates with attractive women.

Let me explain...

This tactic, often called "assuming the sale", is employed by a salesman towards the end of a conversation about a product. When it comes time to nudge the potential customer to buy a product, the salesman won't come out and ask if the person is interesting in purchasing it. Instead, the salesman will ask the potential customer what type of product he or she will be purchasing.

Done in a subtle way, the salesman is assuming the person will buy an item and never gives the customer a chance to say no.

Here's an example of how it would work:

Say you're browsing and looking at brand new Mustangs, a salesman would assume the sale by asking if you want your Mustang in red or black. At no point did he ask if you wanted the car. Instead the salesman asks you what type of car you're going to purchase.

Assuming the sale is an incredible way for people to increase their sales and bottom line. It works incredibly well, because the prospect is never given an opportunity to reject the salesman.

Now you can easily implement this tactic when you're talking to a woman. Instead of "assuming the sale", you're "assuming the date".

Here's how easy it is to do...

After approaching and talking to a woman for awhile, you'll get an idea if she's interested in you. If you determine she's attracted to you, then you should implement the "assuming the date" technique.

All you have to do is say something like this:

"I really enjoyed talking to you. We should go out sometime. Which is a better day, Wednesday or Thursday?"

Now this part is important...

Once you ask this question, lock eyes with her and wait for a response. Don't say anything until she does. It's kind of like a standoff, where the first person to speak loses.

If you've read her signals right, then she'll respond with one of the selections you gave her.

After she agrees to a date, tell her you'll call her in a few days and get her number. At this point, you can pull another "assuming the date" move and tell her:

"Great, we'll go have something to eat. Which do you want to give me, your home or cell number?"

I like this technique because in a few minutes you can go from meeting a woman to setting up a date and getting her number. All of this is done without resorting to asking permission to call her.

It's also a great tactic because you're able to show confidence while avoiding the possibility of rejection!

So next time you're talking to a girl and things are going well, just "assume the date". You'll probably walk away from the conversation with a new set of digits and a hot night already planned!

Scott Patterson

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