Knowing how to attract girls is a fairly simple process to learn. If you're having trouble with learning how to attract girls, here is a quick 'A to Z' breakdown on what you should do around women.
A- Attitude
When taking to a woman, you should give off an attitude which demonstrates confidence and ease.
B- Body Language
Study her body language and act accordingly. If she's giving you signs of attraction, then increase your efforts.
C- Cockiness
Women are attracted to guys who have a bit of over confidence or cockiness. By acting in a slightly cocky manner, you have to make HER work for your attention.
D- Discussion
Discussions or conversations are the key to building attraction. Make sure you that you talk about fun topics and avoid boring things like work or school
E- Excitement
Women are attracted to guys with exciting lives. So be sure to talk about things that people find interested. If you don't have an exciting life, go out and start doing things that are worth talking about.
F- Flirting
Flirting is the key to building attraction. Use your conversation to flirt and make innuendos.
G- Go For It
Hesitation is the ultimate killer of opportunity. If you see an attractive women go for it! Don't sit around and think too much. If you do, you might chicken out and think of a dozen reasons why she might not be attracted to you. By learning how to approach women on instinct, you'll become comfortable around them.
H- Humor
Like cockiness, women love guys with a sense of humor. Try using the "cocky/funny" method to tease her and make her laugh.
I- Interest
It's true that women generally go for guys who have captivated their interest. So talk about things that she likes and whatever puts you in a good light.
J- Jackass
When talking to a woman, avoid all 'Jackass' behaviors like getting drunk or being obnoxious. Save this stuff for when you're hanging out with your friends.
K- Kino
Attraction is created through the subtle build up of touching and physical contact. If she allows you to touch her during a conversation and reciprocates your advances, then you know she's definitely attracted to you.
L- Lifestyle
In order to get to the point where you can attract women at all times, you have to maintain a lifestyle that is exciting and interesting. If you have many activities outside of trying to meet women, you'll develop an attitude which tells them that you're someone worth knowing.
M- Many Stories
A guy that's good with women always has exciting and fun stories to tell. Just sit down and write down all the interesting things which have happened in your life. Then put them to memory and use them the next time you're talking to a girl.
N- Nervousness
Nervousness is one of the biggest killers of attraction. Before approaching women, try to relax and put yourself at ease. Just remember the worst thing that can happen is you don't get her number. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
O- Openers
Instead of using pick-up lines, you should use natural openers that spark her curiosity and interest.
P- Phone Number
Most of the time, your objective is to get her phone number and set up a date later in the week. Generally, you won't find too many girls are willing to go home with you during an initial meeting. So work for the phone number first.
Q- Qualify Her
Forget all notions of trying to impress her. Instead make her work for YOUR interest. If she picks up on the fact that you're qualifying her instead of the other way around, she'll work hard for your affections.
R- Rapport
Rapport is what we often call "chemistry" or "hitting it off". Without it, attraction cannot be built. So when you're talking to a girl make sure you're working on building rapport.
S- Sexual Innuendos
The true masters at attracting women know the importance of sexual innuendos. If you can work these comments into a conversation she'll subconsciously wonder what you're like in the sack.
T- Teasing
Use your conversation and cocky attitude to tease her a little. The common advice is to treat her like a bratty little sister. In other words, never let her feel TOO comfortable with your conversation.
U- Uniform
When trying to meet and attract women, you should be wearing your "uniform". If you are going for the 'normal guy' look, make sure your clothes are neat, while remaining fashionable. But if you want to go for the ' rock star' type girl, wear an outfit that this type of woman will find attractive.
V- Value
There are certain behaviors which will increase your value in a woman's eyes. By learning how to increase your value, you'll become a guy that she has to work hard to attract.
To increase your value, carry yourself in a confident manner, talk to different women and live an exciting life. The more you can do to build a unique aura, the more value you'll have.
W- Winging
It helps to have a 'Wing Man' during your attempts to attract women. Another guy can lend support and give assistance in the approach.
X- Xtra Effort
Some women require a bit of extra effort to get them attracted to you. This means you have to be prepared to work a little harder to get some interested in you.
Y- You're the Prize
Always remember that you're the prize that women have to work for. If you can project this kind of attitude, then you'll have girls approaching you.
Z- Zone
Approaching and attracting women requires that you get in 'The Zone'.
Well there you have it...the A to Z on how to attract girls. If you can learn and implement all 26 of these pointers, you'll find it's easy become a master at attraction.
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How to attract a man
By: cheriann | 12-04-2008
how can i attract a man who is not interested?
A Little help
By: homer421 | 30-03-2008
why am i so nervous everytime I meet new people and when I either see or meet a chick I would like to approch I get so nervous and scared that I just say forget it and crawl back in my shell and end up alone as I have been now for 6 to 7 years
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By: wearthegrudge | 28-03-2008
I stayed over my friends the other night, I borrowed his long t-shirt for when I went to bed (it's big for me so it covers the top of my legs i'd changed into the top by taking my other cloths off underneath so nothing was seen, then i just took my jeans off) Anyway my friend was chatting to me when he turned back after I changed he glanced down at my legs as he continued talking but then looked back at my face quickly, he glanced again during the conversation. Also a week or so before I'd stayed over and wore the same thing and he gave me the same look when I was leaving the room to get something (looked down at my legs) Once before I was waring black tights and a normal skirt and I was laying on my front playing video games next to him and I saw him glance at my skirt. I'm just worried that either he's being a perv OR he is dissaproving? (but its not a disgusted look) of what I was wearing (i normally wear shirts and jeans) btw me & my friend had a brief "thing/affair" some time ago
Umm is he COMING onto me? :/ or not?
By: wearthegrudge | 09-03-2008
My friend has a gf but the other day I was round his house late, and I was happy to leave (i've left that late before) but he asked me to sleep the night I said ok. Anyway last time I slept over I slept on the floor, this time his male friend was round and was sleeping on the floor (there was probs room on the floor for me too) So I ended up sleeping in his bed with hi(it was a double bed, but we slept close and facing eacother, our legs and stuff were touching "accidently" but at one point he had like his knees tucked in my stomache, (btw Me and my friend had done stuff with eachother a couple of years back but never dated) also recently he was acting really jealous about some guy i was friends with, and he touches me a lot (subtley on the hand or back once he was talking to me ata gig and his face was really close his nose resting on my closed eye ) and if we sit next to eachother and our arms/knees touch he dont move em, am I just reading to mcuh into things or is he trying it on?
Where to go from here questions of a confused guy
By: LiveFast2011 | 02-03-2008
Ok sorry for some reason this didnt work the first time. Alright Ive pretty much fallen in love with a girl ive known forever and i am getting signals back from her but not exactly sure how to go about advancing things the situations.....complicated. Some background:Im a Preachers Son and she used to go to the church we attended before there was a big conflict and it split. We went one way her family stayed put. That was 3 years ago i hadnt seen her since, but than suddenly i got to high school and saw her and she...well she got absolutely beautiful. Come 2nd semester i find out i have 4th period with her and we sit right beside eachother. Now we started to catch up and she is just amazing, she always makes me laugh and shes one of 2 people that ive ever met who can make me smile no matter what. I always am messing around with her making her smile and laugh. Theres been some times when ive felt a spark but you can never trust that. One of her freinds keeps tellin me i should ask her out because she thinks shes keeping me open as an option but she doesnt really talk to her that much so i have no idea. All i know is that im in love with her and that i make her happy. If i dont get into one of the service academies than were Both going to the same college and we go to some of the same camps every summer. I just dont know if i should jump right into a relationship with her, having dropped off the face of the planet and just showing up 3 years later. I also dont even know how she really feels about me so i dont really want to bust in guns blazing. I just need some advice on how to carry on and how to find out her feelings without totally screwing myself over. THanks just ask if you have any questions about this. Josh
I fancy a married man
By: betty | 08-02-2008
I have feelings for a friend of mine who is married. I know he loves his wife but anyone who spends time with us can see that there is an attraction. I have made sure we are not alone with each other to prevent anything happening but I am not sure i can keep doing that and i dont want to loose him as a friend.
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