The Art of Seduction: It's Dying for Men and Growing for Women

As double standard lines between men and women are slowly eroded by society's growing demand for gender equality, the art of seduction is gradually slipping away from the grasp of men and finding itself into the hearts and minds of women. Look around and you'll see the truth for yourself.

The Dying Art of Seduction for Men
In the old days, it was always men who were in charge of seduction scenes. Men usually had to create elaborate plots or utter fail-proof lines to win over a woman. Nowadays, however, most men have used feminism as an excuse of becoming lazy in the field of seduction. Now, men expect women to behave just like them, and that means not requiring anything remotely seductive prior to physical intimacy. If a direct question of "do you want to have sex?" offends a woman, she only has herself to blame. After all, didn't she want to be treated just like a man?

Doing that may work for some women, but those women only represent the minority in the female population. Women are still looking for seduction, whether they admit it or not, and it's a man's loss if he isn't inclined to read between the lines.

Seduction Tips for Men

Seduction from Within – The most beautiful setting using the most amazing props will never work, even for a good-looking man, if he lacks important inner qualities. This, unfortunately, is something that most males fail to understand. Seduction is not all about creating the greatest impact. The most successful seductions ploys, in fact, sometimes require no external aid.

To successfully seduce a woman, you must first be comfortable with yourself and with what you're doing. You must be confident about who you are and what you plan to do. You must never pretend to be anyone else except yourself. Humor is great but if you're not the type to make jokes then don't.

Timing is Essential – Most seduction ploys require perfect timing: when we say perfect timing, that doesn't mean each and every minute is accounted for, but rather, it's crucial for you to instinctively look for the right time to make the right move. Other seduction ploys however require you to rush in and not give your date time to think or even breathe.

Control, Control, Control – Repeat that to yourself every time you're tempted to do something you already know would ruin your seduction plan. Remember: good things come to those who wait!

The Growing Art of Seduction for Women
More and more women are allowing the 21st century to vanquish their inhibitions when it comes to interaction with the opposite sex. If you're still uncomfortable with the idea of going after your man, think about the risk you're taking: for each second you're waiting for him to make a move is one more second for another woman to make a move on him!

Seduction Tips for Women

Seduction from Within – Like we've said earlier on for the guys, it's important that you act naturally. It's equally important to look the "real" you as well. Women love dressing up when they're out to seduce a man, but while it's okay to make an effort to look good, make sure that you don't overdo it!

Practice by Flirting – To perfect your seduction skills, practice often by flirting. Flirting is a harmless and fun activity, anyway, so there's everything to gain and nothing to lose from it.