I've asked some people in my marriage compatibility mailing list, wanting to know about their marriage compatibility difficulties and things they would like to hear about it. I have had a lot of responses to that email, so it seems great idea to answer the 3 of the questions that I found common in this article. Here you go.
1) How to be sure my spouse really loves me?
Ok. I'll try to be very tactful here. What about this - if you truly loves a guy or a girl what would you do to prove that? How would you make it clear for your spouse to get it that you really feel all warm and loving about him or her?
Basically - you try to show your liking toward that person, right? You demonstrate that it is interesting what that person tells you, maybe even look up at the person for something and certainly care in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes sparkle when looking at the significant one. You seem very enthusiastic be just two of you with the guy or girl.
Do you feel that kind of loving from your partner? Is there some kind of interest in you? Convey sympathy? Come on and test your feelings.
2) How to bring more of affection in our relationship?
True love basically depends on really agreeing and I would say admire what you see in the other person and what he or she tells you. So, you can try to look good for your partner and ALSO try to be more interesting for your partner. Make notes what your partner likes in the way you look and improve it. And, on the contrary, you might consider hiding the things that your partner prefers not to see in you.
I am not telling about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people consider that you should be, because there lays depression and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about having your guys' time together as pleasantly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.
And I certainly propose you give compliments to things you adore about your partner. And, on the contrary, suggest some small betterment, but very gently and never demanding. As in: "You know, that tie would look so nice on you, why wouldn't you try it on you?"
I talk more in my free marriage compatibility report to know more about being fascinating to your partner.
3) The toughest thing about keeping a relationship alive is not to get annoyed on your partner.
I certainly agree with that. Judging by the experience I gained, a person can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that he experienced in the past. And those reactions can happen with no control over them from his part.
One good thing about it - the more rested we are and the better our temper is, the less is the possibility that such outbursts can happen to us. So my suggestion is - rest more and do your best to keep your temper in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my future articles.
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A senior and a freshmen dating
By: Megan | 11-09-2008
Im a freshmen in high school, and i really like this senior. He's a virgin, he goes to church, and he doesn't do any drugs or anything like that. Me and him have one class together and I just made the school play, and he promised if i made it he would be a 'techie'. So we're going to spend a lot of time together, and we hang out anyways. I really want to date him, and i know my parents wouldn't approve..so we would just keep them thinking that we're only friends. Yes, i know that can get me into trouble..and not just with them, but me and this guy only hang out when we're with other people. So nothing would happen, and he knows that. Anyways, please let me know what you think. This could be a really good relationship, i just need some opinions. Thanks.
Is my marriage valid?
By: lilimali | 11-09-2008
i married an american, in america but i am canadian! is my marriage valid in canada? someone please tell me!
Getting married with married-name passport as docment?
By: lilly | 11-09-2008
my passport has expired and im getting married! i want to apply for a passport pre-issued in my married name to use after the wedding but can i use it as documentation to get married or do i have to renew it first and then send it back again for the name change i dont want to end up paying twice if i dont have to!
I suspected that my husband was cheating onme. I ...
By: Confused in L.A. | 11-09-2008
I suspected that my husband was cheating onme. I snooped (yes I snooped) through his email where he told his best friend about this woman and that he had a sexual encounter with this woman. It's been three months and we still haven't talked. I feel like this is all my fault for snooping through his email and phone bills where numerous calls were made to this woman, but I feel like he should share some degree of fault too. He stated I accused him of being a cheater. Well what else could it be. I want to work our marriage out, but maybe is he tyring to see if the grass is greener on the other side before making a decision.
My husband spends most nights chatting and looking ...
By: Malakee | 11-09-2008
My husband spends most nights chatting and looking for pictures online. I have found evidence that indicates he makes calls and visits some those he meets this way. He has told me that he isn't doing anything wrong and I'll have to 'prove' it if I want him to admit to having affairs.
He never wants to take me anywhere and seldom goes to bed when I do. He tells me that I have it 'pretty good' and to quite asking questions. Is it over, or should I wait til I can prove something? Thank You, Malakee
What is going on?
By: Karen | 11-09-2008
My boyfriend and I have lived together for 5 yrs. At first all was great but in the past year I have caught him flirting and making plans to meet women online. I have kicked him out twice but have let him come back because he has no place to go. Now he is complaining that I wont make love to him. I just can't and when i do, i am completely disconnected. I can't afford to live alone but I dont think I love this man anymore. What is going on? I care about him but love?! We are going through counceling but it doesnt seem to help me forgive and forget the trust that i have lost. Why can't i get over this?
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