I've sent an email to people in my romance compatibility mailing list, asking about their romance compatibility issues and questions in mind. I have had a lot of suggestions to that email, so it seems great idea to reply to the 3 of the most common questions in this article. Here you go.
1) How to discover whether my spouse really likes me?
Ok. I'll try to be very tactful here. What do you think - if you indeed likes a guy or a girl how would you demonstrate that? How would you make it obvious for your spouse to notice that you really feel all warm and loving about him or her?
Mainly - you make your best to show your liking toward that person, don't you? You show attention in what that person tells you, maybe even look up at the person for nice things he or she does and certainly friendliness in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes sparkle when looking at the other person. You seem very eager be just two of you with the guy or girl.
Does it come to you that kind of fondness from your sweetheart? Is there some kind of interest in you? Show sympathy? Check it out.
2) How to build up the feelings in our relationship?
True fondness basically depends on really agreeing and I would say admire what you see in the other person and the things he or she says to you. So, you can do your best to look good for your partner and ALSO make your best to be more fascinating for your partner. Make notes what your partner likes in the way you look and improve just that. And, to the opposite, you better not do the things that your partner prefers not to see in you.
I am not advising about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people think you should be, because there lays depression and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about spending your guys' time together as smoothly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.
And I certainly advise you give compliments to things you find great about your partner. And, on the contrary, unobtrusively advise some small betterment, but very gently and not demanding. For instance: "You know, that tie would look so lovely on you, why wouldn't you put it on?"
I talk more in my free romance compatibility report to understand more about being interesting to your partner.
3) The toughest thing about keeping a romance alive is not to get angry on your spouse.
I certainly agree with that. According to the experience I gained, people can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that occurred to him in the past. And those reactions can happen without him or her really being in control of it.
One good thing about it - the more rested we are and the better our mood is, the less is the chance that such reactions can happen to us. So my advice is - rest more and do your best to keep your mood in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my forthcoming articles.
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A senior and a freshmen dating
By: Megan | 11-09-2008
Im a freshmen in high school, and i really like this senior. He's a virgin, he goes to church, and he doesn't do any drugs or anything like that. Me and him have one class together and I just made the school play, and he promised if i made it he would be a 'techie'. So we're going to spend a lot of time together, and we hang out anyways. I really want to date him, and i know my parents wouldn't approve..so we would just keep them thinking that we're only friends. Yes, i know that can get me into trouble..and not just with them, but me and this guy only hang out when we're with other people. So nothing would happen, and he knows that. Anyways, please let me know what you think. This could be a really good relationship, i just need some opinions. Thanks.
Is my marriage valid?
By: lilimali | 11-09-2008
i married an american, in america but i am canadian! is my marriage valid in canada? someone please tell me!
Getting married with married-name passport as docment?
By: lilly | 11-09-2008
my passport has expired and im getting married! i want to apply for a passport pre-issued in my married name to use after the wedding but can i use it as documentation to get married or do i have to renew it first and then send it back again for the name change i dont want to end up paying twice if i dont have to!
I suspected that my husband was cheating onme. I ...
By: Confused in L.A. | 11-09-2008
I suspected that my husband was cheating onme. I snooped (yes I snooped) through his email where he told his best friend about this woman and that he had a sexual encounter with this woman. It's been three months and we still haven't talked. I feel like this is all my fault for snooping through his email and phone bills where numerous calls were made to this woman, but I feel like he should share some degree of fault too. He stated I accused him of being a cheater. Well what else could it be. I want to work our marriage out, but maybe is he tyring to see if the grass is greener on the other side before making a decision.
My husband spends most nights chatting and looking ...
By: Malakee | 11-09-2008
My husband spends most nights chatting and looking for pictures online. I have found evidence that indicates he makes calls and visits some those he meets this way. He has told me that he isn't doing anything wrong and I'll have to 'prove' it if I want him to admit to having affairs.
He never wants to take me anywhere and seldom goes to bed when I do. He tells me that I have it 'pretty good' and to quite asking questions. Is it over, or should I wait til I can prove something? Thank You, Malakee
What is going on?
By: Karen | 11-09-2008
My boyfriend and I have lived together for 5 yrs. At first all was great but in the past year I have caught him flirting and making plans to meet women online. I have kicked him out twice but have let him come back because he has no place to go. Now he is complaining that I wont make love to him. I just can't and when i do, i am completely disconnected. I can't afford to live alone but I dont think I love this man anymore. What is going on? I care about him but love?! We are going through counceling but it doesnt seem to help me forgive and forget the trust that i have lost. Why can't i get over this?
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