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Get women to like you. It's hard enough these days to like yourself--so how do you get WOMEN to like you?
It doesn't have to be hard, and anyone can do it by following these 3 steps:
1. Eliminate your desires.
2. Do something excellent in her presence, thereby proving your sexual worthiness.
3. Retreat, for as Heidegger said, "We pursue that which retreats from us."
Or, to put it more simply:
Be desireless
Be excellent
Be GONE
In the classic guy movie "The Tao of Steve," Dex is a master of hiding his interest, and no surprise gets lots of women. He would never show too much interest in a girl--even if inside he was full of desire! Instead, he would not show too much interest, show his excellence...then retreat.
And of course, the girls then chased HIM!
If you want girls to like you, you should follow the same process. Dex knew how to do one thing VERY WELL. We can apply this to more than just dating! Find your area of expertise and work at it; better to be a jack of ONE trade than a master of none.
So, like Dex, you should aim to be excellent at something, ANYTHING, in a girl's presence. Make it a simple magic trick, cooking a great meal, making her really laugh: find what you're good at, and do something to make her want some more.
Then, when she shows interest, play with her. Tell her to leave you alone, stop stalking you, or just say, "Look, I gotta go," just when she seems really interested.
Guys, that's not just effective--it is FUN to bait and switch on a girl! :) And they love it, even if they pretend not to.
You're not like all the other guys, so you get stuck in their head and become a source of fascination. SHE will chase YOU.
Believe me: it's SO much more fun to be chased than to the chaser!
A WHOLE 'NOTHER LEVEL OF ATTRACTION
This is all part of the art of impressing women, an art that helps YOU become more interesting to women, and gets women to not only like you, but if done right, even gets them to fight over you!
As a single guy or a guy looking for a new relationship, you now have the VERY exciting chance to work on the skills you have, however small they may be, and do something truly magical to impress women. Look at your time of single status not as a loss, but as an OPPORTUNITY, to become a truly one-of-a-kind guy women will love.
It's all about developing your talents - and USING those talents. This will get you the girl, and help you find true, lasting love. You'll also grow your confidence and self-belief in the process by becoming better and more practiced in your talents.
And don't say you don't have one--EVERY guy has at least one. Yes you do!
So if you want to experience the rush you get from holding the cards and knowing how to handle any situation, I highly recommend you read How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series, a very powerful, easily understood course. It's centered around experts of attraction, like Carlos Xuma and Joseph Matthews, who cover inner game, supercharged body language, becoming more interesting to girls, and everything else in between. Getting women to LIKE you is one thing, but you also need to know the rest of how to get--and keep--the women you want.
Whatever you do from now, just remember to always be in control and not give away too much power. Be the chased, not the chaser.
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