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Photos are absolutely key to getting your online dating profile noticed. Think of it as a cover letter that you’re sending out to thousands of potential employers. Employers only have a few seconds to decide whether they’re interested in you. If you don’t have a good cover letter (a picture of you in this case), you won’t be considered for the job. Posting photos on your personal profile page is also a very important step because most people will not look at profiles without photos. It’s strongly suggested that you post at least one headshot and a full-body shot. Look your best. The photos should also be current, clear, and - unless you’re a couple - focused solely on you. Confusing people with a group photo will likely make them want to move right on to the next profile. A big no-no is passing off someone else’s photo as yours. You will only be wasting each other’s time once the other party discovers that you deceived them. Since this is adult dating, it’s fine and perfectly acceptable to post risqué photos. Basic shots of your breasts and ass are okay, but genital shots are not allowed. Remember that sometimes a photo showing only subtle body parts like cleavage or buff arms can also spark intrigue. And don’t be shy about posting photos. The more photos your upload, the better the chances of catching someone’s eye! Here are some other good tips to keep in mind when it comes to posting photos online. Smile! There’s nothing less attractive than a photo of someone looking unhappy or angry. Upload at least one close-up shot. Don’t cover any part of your face, wear shades, or look away from the camera. What are you hiding? Post only photos of yourself. Other members don’t want to see you with an ex or be forced to pick you out of the crowd. Look sexy and hot. That’s whole point of being on here. Don’t look like you just rolled out of bed in your photos. Make the effort to look put together. Women: flirt with the camera… feel free to show your tongue, butt, and breasts. Men: feel free to flirt with the camera too…but don’t overdo it or else you’ll end up looking like a complete dork. Don’t mislead people by posting outdated photos of yourself - or worse a photo of someone else. Don’t post grainy, dark, or blurry photos. Make it easy for people to see you. Wanna catch someone’s eye? Wear a sexy, funny top. Wanna really catch someone’s eye? Wear very little at all. Here’s some other rules we found on an Adult Dating website, for you to use as a rule of thumb: Absolutely no photos of minors, animals, copyrighted images and artwork, sexual intercourse or any forms of penetration, depictions of any sexual act, the genital area, urination or any form of excretion, celebrities or public figures, images of cartoons or anime, depictions of hatred or violence and email addresses/personal contact information. Bottom line: post good photos of yourself, post several of them, good ones…increase your chances of getting laid.
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