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What to do if she says I have a boyfriend
by Alex Coulson
What to do if she has a boyfriend
pretty women are difficult to find and when you stagger over them the odds are they’ll most likely have a boy they are seeing and even if they don’t they say they will, to me this doesn’t really make sense does it?
But don’t worry as the subsequent guidelines are to be used on prettywomen who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to aid you to get past the “boyfriend” excuse, I say the word excuse as the ironic view is even if a woman fancies you and she’s JUST talked to you, she’ll still say “I have a boyfriend” if you express your intentions too early on or go in for the close within the first few minutes.
gorgeous women wander around in “auto-pilot” mode most of the time. When guys stroll towards them and convey interest too early without conveying their qualities then the woman has no reason to “be single” as she’ll say she has a boyfriend even though she may not, so the key here is to put forward as much about you as possible in the initial few minutes in terms of your lifestyle and interesting traits and THEN convey interest later on.
In own experience I’ll have to say that 3/10 pretty girls who say I have a boyfriend will in all probability have one. So what do you say when she says, “I have a boyfriend”?
You: Cool … I have a dog
Or
You: Nice, I’m glad you have somebody to be around when you’re not around me.
Or
You: Well … nobody’s perfect.
The solution to battling past the boyfriend excuse is to be non- reactive; if you cringe in the least amount or even have the least amount tremor or muscle movement then she’ll know she has you.
So don’t let/allow/permit the boyfriend excuse affect/throw/imbalance you. Stay there and persevere and remember only a 3/10 of all women who say it actually mean it. My conviction is that all gorgeous women need to feel/think/know they are being chased in one way or another, this shows to them whether you really want her and are willing to persist past challenges to get her and if you do then you get some pink taco for dinner : )
One girl has actually said to me that she throws the boyfriend excuse out there to “test” a mans traits, if persists with me and persists he’s a real man as he likes challenges and has “survival” qualities. She also said that she gets disappointed when guys walk away after she says she has a boyfriend, above all if she genuinely liked the guy.
The moral? fast boyfriend – breaker tactics:
*Stay there and persevere
*Be un-reactive
*Keep escalating physically and forget she mentioned it
*“I have a dog”
Talk soon my friend,
Alex Coulson
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