Why do women reject men?
Being shot down in a bar by a women is tough I know, ultimately any man who familiarizes and de-sensitizes himself to rejection from women will be astonishingly good with women sometime in his life. It’s a given that if you don’t are about what the woman thinks of you and your approach then you will be more relaxed, carefree and women will find this attractive as it’s a confident trait to have.
So here are some quick tips to getting over the initial rejection from a woman:
- Move on. That’s right pick yourself up and move on to approach more women, the best way I found to get over a bad approach was to even it off by doing a good approach and meeting even more women.
- Don’t be influenced by anything they say. You may get the random “you’re strange” or “Get lost” however try not to let this get to you. If you’re influence emotionally by what other people think of you or even worse what RANDOM women who’ve only known you for less than 10 seconds say then you need to work on that.
- Be prepared for rejection. Not every approach you do will be successful, in fact most of my approaches aren’t successful however due to the sheer volume I do I’m lucky to be dating several beautiful women every week, you can do this too just head out there and give it a try.
Women reject men for a variety of reasons and usually the most popular one is “I didn’t like his approach”. First impressions count here guys so make your first impression a good one. There’s a few things you can do here the first is look as good as you can, dress well and clean, have clean breath and white teeth (quit smoking also) as it helps.
A few more ideas you can do to improve your approach:
- Approach confidently with a commanding but friendly voice. Don’t be shy or timid (this is not attractive)
- Be Friendly and smile, show you’re not a threat and show her that you’re a fun guy.
- Know what you’re going to say, most guys walk away feeling bad if they run out of things to talk about, so make sure you have a few good stories lined up.
- Watch your body language. Women can tell of you’re a confident guy just by the way you hold yourself, if you stand tall with a straight back, have a smile and you don’t fidget then that’s a start.
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