This is something that will either make you or break you with women. If you want to be that mature man in your life then honesty is the fastest way to get there. You must be honest with yourself first and know what it is that you want and the reasons you want it and then be honest with women. The goal is not to hurt a woman’s feelings and why would you want to do this because it will in the end, cause more problems for you that NEVER had to be there in the first place.
I believe there are two types of honesty that you can convey. One is honesty seeking a reaction or approval from someone else and the other honesty is being honest with you and not seeking a reaction from anyone else and being GENUINE.
When you are honest with women and do not expect a reaction you are being a man, you are not being a wuss and hoping that the woman is going to say what you want to hear. Women will respect you so much more if you are honest with them.
If you want to enjoy your single life and have fun then set your rules and boundaries at the start and let the woman know so that if she knows where she stands. By being honest to women it conveys all the right signals. It shows her that you know what you want, which most men don’t know what it is they want, they go into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
Many men are scared to tell the truth because they think it is wrong or it’s going to scare the woman away. The more you lie to women the more problems you are causing in the relationship, it confuses me so much to why men lie to woman when it is going to result in causing more pain than pleasure.
Just so you know as men we suck as lying, women are much better liars than us as men so don’t even try unless you want to get caught out. Men come up with reasons of I am going to lie to protect the woman from getting hurt but they are hurting the woman and themselves more than just being honest. It is such a simple concept, we have all been brought up to not lie and telling the truth is the best policy thus not many people listen. I know for myself being honest with women and not seeking a reaction out of them has conveyed me as being a male that “get’s it.”
What happens if you lie? A problem occurs and it eats away at both people until it gets to a boiling point and someone says something but instead of saying something when they should have they explode because it has turned into a big monster.
If you ask anyone, they would rather be told the truth then lied to, wouldn’t you? So be honest as a man, say what it is you want to say, set your rules and boundaries up at the start. The last thing I want to say is use with your head before your emotions always otherwise they will get you into trouble.
Check out all my FREE content at How Do I Please A Woman
Got a Question? Ask.
Ask the community a question about this article:
Frequently Asked Questions
Sad
By: cynthia | 13-07-2008
how do i stop the love of my life from marrying someone else
Love sick
By: Strawberry :) | 13-07-2008
What to do when you have a man in your life loving you giving you all the attention you could ever want, sexing you right, taking you everywhere you want to go, (well at least trying to) but then you find that you have no time for yourself because he smothering you with all this love? You then try to tell him to back off and give you a little space he finally do then you end up alone because now he find things to do in his spare time. Now you wishing hooping and praying that one day you can get his time again?
I'm in love with a girl who has a man, what do I do?
By: Emmitt01 | 13-07-2008
I work with this drop dead gorgeous girl that i am madly in love with and we are just getting to know each other but she has a boyfriend. She revealed to me that they never go out because he always wants to play sports and she watches him play all day long. I have never had any problems talking to girls until now because I am no where as good looking as she is I mean if I got her it would be the biggest miracle ever. I want to see her happy and never sad but I feel she would be happiest with me, I don't believe in breaking up a relationship unless it is necessary but this is one time I cant stop thinking about her and breaking her and her boyfriend up so she can be mine. What do I do?
I find myself always reading something read sad or ...
By: minnie | 12-07-2008
I find myself always reading something read sad or dwelling on depressing things. How can I change?
Article Research: heartfelt opinion requested on ...
By: janedoechronicles | 12-07-2008
Article Research: heartfelt opinion requested on love, and relationships from the "male" viewpoint.What is the male reality?Men are able to separate sex from love; some not. Describe the perfect woman you would like in your life if you could create her . . . And why.Don't tell me what you think I want to hear, please dig deep into your heart and approach this question as if you could have the woman of your dreams. -- That one person you have searched for - the one you can't get out of your heart or erase from your mind. Your Soul Mate!
What would the baby be thinking?
By: top54u | 12-07-2008
Why do you think is the baby in the video in the link is laughing?
Q&A Powered by:
Latest Dating Articles
Tips And Advice For Choosing A Dating Service
By: Margarita Dalian | 26/07/2008
Like almost everything else these days, love has gone digital. Instead of hitting the singles scene, now people looking for love turn to their computers and go shopping for a mate online the same way they show for their books and plane tickets.
The Age Thing On Your Online Dating Profile
By: Margarita Dalian | 26/07/2008
Online dating opened a whole new world and level of dating. For many people it is easier to find a partner through an online dating service for several reasons
What to Say to a Girlfriend After an Argument
By: Peter Harris | 26/07/2008
Arguing between couples is normal and will happen to the best of couples. Avoiding arguments is probably not healthy and sooner or later one of you will explode. Arguments are a necessary part of any relationship because they allow you an avenue to express thoughts and opinions that you might not otherwise express. What you say to a
girlfriend after an argument can determine how successful you will be in making up with her.
How to Argue Fairly - Part 2
By: Peter Harris | 26/07/2008
Learning how to argue fairly can be very beneficial to the longevity of your relationship. Because arguements are often fueled by intense emotions it is wise to adhere to specific guidelines when arguing so you can avoid anything that will cause irreparable damage in the relationship. Here are further guidelines on how to argue fairly.
How to Argue Fairly - Part 1
By: Peter Harris | 26/07/2008
Learning how to argue fairly can be very beneficial to the longevity of your relationship. Because arguements are often fueled by intense emotions it is wise to adhere to specific guidelines when arguing so you can avoid anything that will cause irreparable damage in the relationship. Here are some guidelines on how to argue fairly.
How to Argue Your Point
By: Peter Harris | 26/07/2008
Most of us are never taught how to argue your point effectively so we can reach a productive outcome. Often times we argue in a destructive manner and don't resovle our conflicts because of it. Until you discover how to argue your point effectively you can cause significant damage to your relationships, both business and personal. Here are some guidelines on how to argue your point.
What Do Couples Argue About?
By: Peter Harris | 26/07/2008
Anyone in a relationship will argue with their partners. It is inevitable. Did you ever wonder what do other couples argue about? Likely they are arguing about the same things that you and your partner argue about. Arguing is normal and it shouldn't be avoided. It really can be used to help bring forth issues and concerns that couples have so they can learn more about each other and bring themselves closer together. So what do couples argue about?
Top Five Things to Say to a Girlfriend After an Argument
By: Peter Harris | 26/07/2008
Avoiding arguments is probably not healthy and sooner or later one of you will explode. Arguing in this manner is usually counterproductive in that it becomes much harder to control your emotions and to reach a resolution. What you say to a girlfriend after an argument can determine how successful you will be in making up with her.
More from Dean Antonio
How to Please a Woman
By: Dean Antonio | 28/05/2008 | Dating
To women it is the relationship that matters the most, how does she feel about him, what does she think about him, did she have respect for him, did he push those buttons inside of her that made her a sexual being.
Why Most Women are Sexually Frustrated
By: Dean Antonio | 11/05/2008 | Dating
Did you know only 70% of women have had an orgasm and only 30% of women have had a vaginal orgasm in intercourse…..
Relationships 
