Have you broken up with your ex but you still love your ex and really want to get him/her back? Maybe you are also quite worried about whether you will be successful in your attempt and win your ex back.
Well, even though I personally believed that almost all relationships can be saved, no matter how hopeless the situation seems, no one can guarantee that you will definitely get your ex back.
In fact, sometimes, it may be better of for both of you to let go of the relationship. However, if you really believe that both of you are meant to be together, then you should not worry too much about your chances of success.
Instead, you should focus on the necessary actions that you can take in order to increase your chances of winning your ex back. These are things that are within your control. By taking control of those things that you can control, your chances to win your ex back will increase.
Perhaps, one of the actions that you can take is to be aware of some of the most common mistakes that many men and women make when trying to win their ex back.
There is a possibility that you may have already made some mistakes. If you are in this situation, try not to worry too much about it. This is quite common and fortunately, the mistakes that people made are usually not fatal to their relationships. There are probably quite a number of things you can do to reverse your mistakes.
Maybe you will want to ask yourself these few questions. Have you ever called your ex too many times in one day? For example, several times per day or even several times per hour.
Have you ever argued with your ex over the break up? Have you ever got yourself drunk and do drunk dialing?
Those questions mentioned above are just some examples of the many common mistakes that many men and women made. By being aware of them, your chances of making them will reduce dramatically. This will increase your chances of winning your ex back.
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I want my boyfriend back tome!
By: ivin | 22-11-2008
I want my boyfriend back tome! Please help me! I dont know what to do to win my ex back. I love him so much, I cant lived without him! I cant even eat. Im so depreased. I want to see him again. But the problem is that we stop communicating with each other. He just ignore my message to him. Does my boyfriend have a new gf? I dont know what to do. I cant go on with my life... hes the only one for me. please help me.. his my first boyfriend and when we are together everything was just like a magic! But all of the sudden... everything was change.. i need him.. i really want him back!PLEASE HELP ME! what im going to do
I want him home again.
By: kerry | 13-10-2008
My husband tryed to have sex with my sister. I threw him out and now i want him back. But now he wont come back as he says i go on at him. He says he will see me and our two year old son sometimes, but thats not enough. I want him to come back home but hes says maybe soon. What should i do?
My gf of4months-22asked for space then a break ...
By: Confused and hurting | 16-06-2008
My gf of4months-22asked for space then a break after a month of me questioning her texting guyswho wronged her Driving back from our first trip(3 months into knowing each other and 2+ into labeling it exclusive)which she had stated felt like our honeymoon(after her gmas funeral)I awoke on the way back to her shielding the phone while texting a guy who was her ex bf that dumped her more than a year prior. The number was not saved in her phone which seemed like she wrote him off, but why continually text back and forth after having such an amazing trip? (her first alone with any of her multiple bf/hookups)I questioned her and we dismissed it. That weekend the same # texts after 3am for a bootycall(hey girl im in yr town lets meet up for some fun) She was asleep I happened to wake-thought it could be fam member in need and checked it-wasnt thrilled and maybe overreacted when she woke. This was the case with a pair of more recent ex's the following weeks-shes a flirt-but if talking marriage/babies/living together and professing love why not tell the past guys/friends to back off-ONLY ISSUE WE HAD Every other possible thing was hitting on all cylinders. She began planning a future months(weddings)+yrs out(moving away to school toghether)just over a month into knowing each other! I wasnt scared by this as I felt the same way. Not to sound cocky but im quite a catch she stated she was "so lucky shes the one that snagged me" and even with her mental/past issues I felt this is the one. Her friends and fam that I was allowed to meet approved of me instantly- my stability,honesty,loyalty,good looks,intelligence,endless ceiling and of course how great I treated her. My fam/friends loved her as well. Did I get played? Is she just immature and scared of her 1st good guy? Does she really just want to test the single life and "find herself" as she says? The cellphone/trust thing was huge to her but why hide something from the man(27)youve decided on such a detailed future with?-if I wasnt played how do I get her back (we still love each other very much) other than her realizing on her own? <<I w>> The breakup was done through IM not face to face or even on the phone... I am truely shattered by this and hope she will wake up or find herself and way back to me shortly however ive got good word that shes not as much testing the "single life" as she is talking on the phone and texting... maybe even spending time and planning to move nearby this guy that she met the weekend after she wanted the "space"... then decided on a "break" the week after her graduation weekend! She has been ADAMANT that she hasnt cheated on me emotionally physically or with words (she says the flirting was just ribbing between friends- even though those "friends" were sexual friends at one point). I feel as if I either was wayyy off and she didnt care for me but the things I did to and for her (played me) or she wanted to be ready for a long term committed relationship with a great guy (with the exception of a few trust issues) but found out she wanst mature enough yet and decided flitation with many many guys was better than intense feelings (and maybe being hurt) with "the one" guy. Confused and hurting.. ---I was warned that she has a reputation for using guys for sex in the past, we talked about this and she said she only cheated on the ones that cheated on her first (why bother getting back with a cheater just to cheat on them?). Also she said I was the first man that shes been with (others were within a yr of her) and the first one that reciprocated as intense feelings that she was feeling, either she was into them and they were indifferant or vice versa---
Help! I dont know what to do! I want the girl I love back!
By: musickman4231 | 03-04-2008
I Am so confused. My girlfriend and i broke up the weekend before spring break. I did something that night that broke her trust and i didnt call her until 6 the next day. She was mad. We were broken up but i talked to her for a while, apologized and everything. The next day at school everything was fine. we walked together. kissed and everything. We just werent dating. The day before spring break, i went over to her house to hang out with her before she left to go to california. Everything was fine, i was a little upset tho. I showed it. I wsa upset we werent together. She told me everything would be fine, and not to worry about this guy that was trying to talk to her. She told me before i was about to leave that she couldnt wait to bang me when she got back! lol. She was there for a week. and whenever i would talk to her on the phone she seemed somewhat irritated. She still said i love you, and we still had a couple nice conversations. Well the trouble started when i left for baltimore to vist my father in the hospitial. I live in ohio. My signifigant other were supposed to get coffee when she got back or when i got back, on sunday. But that day as i was leaving the hospitial to come home, she said...." I feel i should let you know im talking to someone else." Naturally i called her and pleaded and told her i would change and do more for her and such. That i would be the best i could be for her. I found out this was the wrong way to go about things. But i didnt know better then. Now I still Love this girl with all my heart, and i want to get her back, but she is walking in the halls with some other guy now. Whenever she isnt with him i will talk to her or try to walk with her. I have done some cute things for her and such throughout the past couple days. She likes them. She asks me why am i being so nice, and that i should hate her for what she is doing to me, and htat she neglects me and that im so good to her, and that i dont deserve her, and that she loves me but cant be with me. I am so confused, i have looked all over the internet for help but i just keep getting more conufsed. I get some hope from these sights but mostly confusion. She might accept my offer to take her on a date this saturday. It still seems as if she is showing me signs. HELP!! what do i do? I love her so much. Thank you, Aaron
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