Recovery means developing a normal or improved state. At Motivate 4 Success, we use innovative techniques to help individual’s recovery from Life’s Challenges and develop a personal style that allows them to achieve the life they choose. We are all recovering in some respect. Moving through our own denial, putting ego aside, and allowing ourselves to ask for help are key learning concepts to developing an enjoyable life. We specialize in Seniors and Caregivers, Addicts/Alcoholics and the families that are impacted by them, and life challenges such as lay off, financial debt, depression and overwhelm. Get motivated to recover from the life you are living today. When change is a must, motivation becomes key to success. Motivate 4 Success and Senior Motivate 4 Success or call (949) 375-2676
Senior Motivate 4 Success was formally introduced to the public after 2 years of working with a variety of seniors to clearly identify programs and procedures that could get results quickly. Our oldest client turned 88 on November 7th. The problems plaguing this population are often times ignored even by the professionals. Growing old is not a reason or an excuse for lowering standards of living.
Coach Chez Wise specializes in Recovery Coaching. In recovery we help individuals to achieve a normal or improved life. A certified coach, and member of the International Coaching Federation, Chez Wise and the coaches of Motivate 4 Success utilizes a variety of motivational tools to assist clients learning new skills of behavior and emotional control. The result is living each day, with purpose, passion and joy. Most seniors have weak social skills, and honestly do not know how to make new friends. Social Isolation not only results in physical problems, but oftentimes opens the senior to being easy prey to financial abuse.
Caregivers are especially vulnerable to falling into behaviors that enable the Senior to continue in a downward spiral. Emotional stretched, isolated, and physically exhausted, they are often caught in the day to day drama. Coaching helps them to see how they are reacting rather than acting. Helping the caregiver to learn new tools for change. Most caregivers find that as they maintain consistency, their senior changes. Consistency is difficult if not impossible alone. Coaching is a solution that really works with you, where you are.
Using the tools learned for effectively dealing with addictive behavior, Senior Motivate 4 Success has developed similar programs to work with seniors with different challenges facing them. Many of the behaviors are actually the same, denial being one of the most prevalent. You cannot create solution, and implement change, if there is no acceptance of a need for change.
Alzheimer’s, MCI and varying dementia’s are slow diseases that take a toll on the family and the senior as well. Learning new skills to move through the fear that often accompanies any type of dementia, is difficult if not impossible alone. Coaching becomes a source of support and challenge, where the individual is discovering the solutions themselves.
Seniors dealing with addiction is very prevalent, and is an underlying problem for many other issues. Falls, dementia, meanness, insomnia can be linked directly to alcoholism and addiction. Alcohol is a depressant. Depression is not only a prevalent disorder but is also a pervasive problem. Depressed Older adults tend to use health services at high rates, engage in poorer health behaviors, and evidence what is known as "excess disability." I often hear that a senior has “earned” the right to drink. No one who has ever seen the effects of alcoholism would ever consider it a right.
There is a solution to each and every life challenge. Having a coach allows you to uncover, discover and discard old beliefs that have kept you from moving forward in your life. Where ever you or your senior are, let us help you find that quality of life you want. The action is up to you.
- Related Videos
- Related Articles
- Ask / Related Q&A
- Depression=Anger+Grief+Trauma
- How to Heal Depression
- Traits of Depression in Men
- Vitamin B5 Deficiency, Alcoholism And Depression
- Suicide Attempts Link Statistics About Teen Suicide and Teen Depression
- Mindfulness Psychotherapy for Overcoming Depression. Boulder, Colorado
- End Depression, Anxiety, Insomnia and Mood Disorders and Find Inner Peace and Happiness through Energy Body Cleansing and Helaing
- End Depression, Anxiety and Other Mood Disorders and Insomnia through Reiki, Visualization, Meditation, Spirituality and Positive Thinking




Maintaining Independence With Senior In-Home Care
By: Dawn Williams | 06/01/2010Aging sometimes brings an eventual decline in our physical capabilities. But we can maintain independence and quality of life with a little assistance. In-home senior care may be the answer.
Rely On A Medical Alert System, Not A Cell Phone
By: Mark Walters | 06/01/2010Useful information and advice on medical alert systems. Find out why they are superior to cell phones in emergency situations.
Finding a Nursing Home - How to Deal with the Emotional Factor of Moving to a Care Home
By: Michiel Van Kets | 04/01/2010Moving to a caring home is a new start in life and therefore can be fraught with emotional problems - here are some ways to deal with the emotional roller coaster of moving to a nursing home. Like all major life changes, moving to a nursing home is laden with emotional difficulties - here are some tips on how to handle them.
Outdoor Stair Lift- Why Are They Different
By: Nigel | 03/01/2010An outdoor stair lift is designed to be set up on a set of stairs which are exposed to the elements, which includes porches, sun decks, garden steps, shed or basements steps as well as front stoops. Should you be fortunate to reside in a seaside home or your home happens to be close to the ocean and therefore suffers from a lot of salt spray, ensure your outdoor stair lift will be suitably protected from this extremely corrosive weather conditions before you purchase it.
HOW KEEP YOUR SENIOR PARENTS MOBILE
By: Platetxt | 31/12/2009This article provides steps for children who need to have a discussion with their parent's driving as they age.
Senior Home care Services in Ct
By: Jonas Kaz | 31/12/2009Adams senior care is a private non medical agency providing personal care to the senior people in order to make them comfortable in their own home. The care givers of this industry are working with their utmost enthusiasm and compassion to provide love and affection to the senior civilians which they are quite often deprived of.
Top 7 Qualities of a Good Nursing Home
By: Legend Healthcare | 29/12/2009Most seniors and their families plan on staying their own homes for as long as possible, but when that becomes impossible due to health or safety concerns a nursing home will need to be chosen. While not all San Antonio nursing homes are good there are many fine facilities nationwide that provide excellent care.
Long Term Care Story: Dad Couldn't Remember My Name
By: Janet Washburn | 29/12/2009A son's story of the pain experienced when he repeated reached out to his ailing and elderly father. Caring for our older family members doesn't have to be such a financial and emotional burden if you prepare in advance during retirement planning leveraging today's popular long term care insurance coverage.
Smoking is my identity
By: Coach Chez Wise | 19/05/2009 | Quit SmokingSmoking for ma is part of my identity. I keep trying to quit, and end up losing my mind, and not knowing who I am. My story may sound like yours. I found an alternative that is working for me.
Not Acceptable
By: Coach Chez Wise | 13/05/2009 | Home & FamilyNo one can read your mind and in the case of an alcoholic they have no idea why you are suddenly mad at them. You need to clearly tell them the action they are taking is unacceptable to you.
Recovery Coaching for Seniors and Care givers
By: Coach Chez Wise | 05/05/2009 | Elderly CareRecovery Coaching for seniors and caregivers is a solution, and one of the best. Often times the problems being faced are looked at as crosses to bear, rather than changes that need to be addressed. Caregivers and Seniors alike, get caught in a repetitive behavior that works to cause individuals to become more isolated, alone and depressed. Senior Motivate 4 Success works to break this cycle by introducing tools and techniques that help both to recover a normal or improved life.
Mothers Day is an opportunity to think outside the box
By: Coach Chez Wise | 05/05/2009 | HolidaysFlowers are done to death. Isn't it time you grew up and really thought about mom and who and where she is now? I am offering some ideas to make this holiday worthwhile, you just need to think outside the box
44 million, or an estimated 21% of all U.S. households, provide care for an Elder adult family member or friend
By: Coach Chez Wise | 20/04/2009 | Elderly CareThe costs of care giving to caregivers themselves are more than a simple accounting of hours. They include direct out-of-pocket expenses, economic insecurity caused by changes in work patterns, and health effects. Much more difficult and time consuming than child care, (emotionally, mentally and physically), families need to prepare for the future, not deal when the time comes.
Still Smoking? Here Is An Alternative
By: Coach Chez Wise | 12/03/2009 | Quit SmokingFinally a Real Alternative to Smoking Cigarettes! No Gum, No Lozenges, No Patches and No Carrot Sticks. for Anyone That Has Wondered What Do I Do With My Hands Now? This is the Ultimate Solution. Yes You Really Do Need to Quit, But if You are Like Me, After Thousands of Dollars, Hundreds of Strategies, You are Still Smoking.
Out of Work Into Addiction
By: Coach Chez Wise | 11/02/2009 | Self ImprovementA shaky economy can mean that your job is in jeopardy, your savings at risk or your bills are piling up uncontrollably. Don’t let the emotional fear drive your addictions or relapse. Take care of self, and focus on change.
Help Your Addict/alcoholic Hit Bottom
By: Coach Chez Wise | 11/02/2009 | MarriageFor decades we have listened to the “experts” tell us recovery cannot happen until the addict or alcoholic hits bottom. Bottom for most alcoholics and addicts is jail, institutions, or death. Are you willing to wait?