Newly published author/writer. A new writer of urban tales and fiction. My second book will be out this Fall of 2009.
Are you the type of person that shares everything bit of assets with your friends?
Do they have a fit when you don't share your funds with them? Or do they want to know your every move when you have money?
Well in cases like this, when it comes to money and friendships, those two just don't mix well at all.
Note; there's nothing perfect in this world and some people don't know how to respond and share the love, so they act crazy and want to take over as far as the assets even when you offer them money or like to take advantage of you, but trust to know; when people know that you have money, things are bound to happen and not really in a good way either so in other words, money is the root of all evil and then you have the jealous person that does spiteful things when you have money to either ruin your life just because you have more money than them and not caring about how you feel and what you had to sacrifice to get that money or how much you saved and how long it took you to get it or how hard you worked to succeed into getting your money because they just want to come into your circle and take over what you have or just go the distance to fill your shoes or take your money or even go as far as killing you for it.
With every little situation, there's always a mentally envisioned unequal equation, people deeply and wishfully wants more for their personal self and it is hard to get a fair division because 50/50 doesn't exist and when you ask someone to split anything that belongs to the two they are either out for themselves a little more or because of the guilt of the greed that they know what's inside, might cut you a little more and cut themsleves a little less. So whether you entertain the personal greed or the guilt of it, the vision is 50/50 and you know that there's always greed with money.
We understand that there's a driving force and all of our actions, we could break it down in many details or we could admit to ourselves that it's mind over matter, spiritual over mental and from the bottom to the top.
Let's admit to ourselves that we've been in competitions with everything around us and everyone around us for a long as you had a memory at least the first breath of air we took on this earth.
Now knowing is half the battle now that we admit if we could be more friendly with it, and pay attention to the fact that we have the same incompetitiveness and be careful, someone we should care for anyway and be more of a good sport person and know that every dog has its day and everyone needs their day and truly supports each other around, then the money will just be a useful tool, but until we got our minds right and we are tight, money will never be right, it would be like a disease that makes the world go round, but it sounds like doom to me.
Know that:Money can always be replaced, but great friendships and friends itself could never be reapired if damaged over a money issue or if bridges are burned over that.
Now the way money and friendships do mix is if your friends are making money as well and when they find out that you have money and they, don't they will either try to get inside your pockets or try to just gain off the top, but a true friend will always try to help you manage your funds.
Now if you don't know how to seperate money from your friends, you will be in a world of trouble and once money gets involved, ppeople will do anything for it with too much temptation, but you have to know when to seperate the two and don't mix one with the other.
In other words: Do a strong evaluation!
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