Age difference
We should keep in mind that our life partner should not be having age difference with us and if there is a difference, that should not be more than two to three years. Difference beyond two to three years will not cause anything to us today, but when we shall be growing old, this difference in age shall be causing troubles to the life partners.
In most of the cases, the woman do not like that their life partner be an old person and should be looking old. Some men try to look young, but actually they are not young and only their life partners know that they are not young. Age cannot be concealed and at least we cannot conceal our age from our life partner. He or she knows where the life partner stands and what is the age and what difference he or she is facing. Therefore, even the parents of sons and daughters must know that they should arrange marriages of their wards with people of equal age and not more and nor lower than that.
We should know that even love affairs would not last long because sex is the main connecting instinct and that must be satisfied. We have seen that most of the women are filing petitions for divorce and the main ground is that her husband is impotent. And the divorce petitions are either ex-party or are admitted and divorce petitions are accepted. The woman would not like to remain with a man who is impotent and is not able to perform sex with her and that too to her satisfaction. And most of the people suffer impotency only because they are older in age and there is a difference of at least ten years or so. Such marriages are never successful and therefore, we should ban such marriages because in old age they shall suffer and there are chances that the marriage bonds shall break.
We should marry our wards when they are in twenties because they are to give birth to children, they are to bring them up and then they are to provide them with proper education, proper training and proper adjustment in life and then the parents shall also expect that their wards may help them in their old age and that is possible only if the marriages are solemnized in time and therefore, twenties is the proper time when we should get married.
We should finis our child bearing process in time and it should be completed within the first ten years of marriage and after that we should stop this process. After this period we shall be looking after our children and we shall also be enjoying our own life. We must realize through experience and we should keep in our mind when we are looking life partners for our children. Equal in age is the best criteria of marriage and it must be adhered to. age difference shall not allow us to enjoy our sex life and even life normally.
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