Home is the Place From Where We Get Booster for Living and That is the Base of our Life, Therefore, We Should Maintain This Home

Home be maintained.

We should be thankful to those who had established this concept of ' home ' for us and we could join this home through the concept of marriage. We are surprised to note as to how the people had been living on this earth when there was no concept of marriage and no concept of this home. The people who established these two concepts must be congratulated because they had been suffering and these two concepts took their birth out those sufferings.
Since these two concepts are gifts from those forefathers, therefore, it is our duty to maintain these two concepts and carry them forward. There is now no alternative with us. The people who could not remain one in the family are the sufferers and they are not now full persons. The men who are not with a family is a dangerous person and the people like in India are not allowing such a person to visit their houses often and similarly the women who are widow or could not marry are not accepted by the people and they are having fears that such woman shall be destroying the future of their daughters.
Therefore, each one should try to choose a life partner and then they should have children. After having children in the family they should try to bring them up and try to maintain this family because this is the first unit of society. The couple and other members in this house must ensure that they all are taking complete interest in the affairs of the house and none should feel that he or she is a stranger in the family. They all should make it sure that peace is maintained in the house. They should take the father of the house as the keeper of the house and all should obey him and the keeper should take help of his wife. They must see that desires and demands of each member in the house are met properly and on the other hand each member must see that he is contributing towards this house one way or the other.
We are to run this house and for that purpose we need money and if the earnings are on the lower side, we should try to increase the earning and each member should take interest and what he or she can do, he or she must do that so that they too are bringing some money to the house. They must be a unit and they should be united and they should jointly work for the betterment of the house. They must be having freedom, but at the same time they should ensure that they have got common enemies and common friends. They may be having some differences in the house, but they should see that they are solving these differences and disputes amicably in the house itself and they should try that their disputes and differences do not go out in the public. The keeper or the head of the house must keep peace in the house and he or she must ensure that all are treated equally and there is no complaint of discrimination from any member.
The wife is the house mistress and therefore, she must have a look on each member in the house and she must make it sure that none is feeling isolated and singled out. each one may be looked after properly and must be allowed to go ahead with his life and see that he is getting proper education, proper training and proper adjustment at work so that one day he should be able to establish his own family and then he should be able to run the family. The parents must be proud of the fact that they could prepare their children in such a manner that they would be able to establish and run the house. They should take special care of the girl child because one day this child shall leave the paternal house and shall be establishing with others. She must be trained like this so that when she goes to the house of her in laws, she must be able to adjust herself with these strangers where she shall have to spend whole part of her remaining life.
If the house is with common interests, then they shall be getting good reputation. And they are not at peace with each other, they shall not be getting good reputation and there shall be chances that others shall not be liking have relations with such a family. Then the people of this house shall be facing difficulties, because they shall not be able to find out suitable matches for their sons and daughters.
So the concept of house and of family must be understood in a right manner and only then the members shall be able to maintain this unit of the society.
And the couple should learn this art and only then they shall be in a position to maintain this house and shall be able to keep the people together.
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