You must be very excited knowing that your wedding day is getting nearer. It is such an awesome time and you should enjoy every moment. I'm sure you're gathering creative wedding ideas and need all the help you can get with your wedding planning. The dress is so important, but then so is flowers, the invitations, the ring, the cake and of course.......the honeymoon. You can even get ideas and etiquette for second weddings.
Getting married a second time can really be fun. Especially if you and your partner can work together to combine your ideas and to find out about the correct etiquette for second weddings. This particular article goes into the details of the invitations.
Firstly you have to decide who will be invited to the wedding. This will help you determine if you are going to host an intimate gathering with close friends and family or if you will have a big wedding. Of course you can invite anybody you want but the deciding factor will probably be your budget.
It may be a good idea not to invite former in-laws or ex-spouses!) even if you are on good terms. Your wedding day may bring back special memories and make them melancholy which in turn can upset other guests. You should use your discretion though.
Etiquette for announcing a second wedding is pretty much the same as for the first. It is commonly done by the couple nowadays but the parents can make the announcement if they wish. People who were not invited to the wedding should only receive an announcement after the ceremony.
The norm is to use heavy card stock for formal weddings, verbal invitations for informal events and any of an enormous array of invitations for semi-formal occasions. The same etiquette applies to second weddings. I would not recommend emailing invitations if you want a small, informal wedding though. Regular mail or even a phone call is much more personal and it is a special occasion after all.
You can find samples of wording for second wedding invitations hosted by the couple at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_1.html
or if it is hosted by the parents at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_2.html
and if it is hosted by the couple's children at http://www.idotaketwo.com/invitation_3.html.
You can use it as is or tweak it to suit your taste. Any of these samples are acceptable.
Even if you do not want gifts please do not say that on the invitation. This may suggest that you expected to be receiving gifts. This is not considered correct etiquette but you can convey the message by word of mouth or by mentioning it on your wedding website if you have one. These can be created easily and is a great way to share your whole happy story with others.
As you can see there definitely are differences between the first and second wedding etiquette and ideas. The Internet has made it so much easier to search for items and to determine the right way of doing things.
- Related Videos
- Related Articles
- Ask / Related Q&A
- The Proper Wedding Etiquette For A Second Marriage
- Second Wedding Etiquette And Ideas For Ceremonies
- Understanding Proper Wedding Etiquette
- Ideas For Second Weddings: Invitations
- The Dos Do Nots, And Maybes Of Having Children At Your Wedding
- Wedding Shower Tips When It’s the Second Time Around
- Wedding Invitation Ideas for Destination Weddings
- Choosing a Wedding Invitation for Your Unique Destination Theme




Mobility Walkers Help Mobility Challenged Individuals Walk
By: Paul Easton | 25/11/2009All about the Mobility Walkers
How to Have a Green and Eco-Friendly Happy Chrismas and New Year and Save Money
By: Greg Murry | 25/11/2009Merry Christmas and a Happy Green New Year. With the festive season racing towards us, apart from wondering about gifts, guests, breaks away and festive food, it is also a time to wonder how much all of this will cost. Sure, we all want to extend generosity and well-being, but maybe in these economic times and for that matter environmental times, a though to the planet doesn't go astray.
Choosing The Right Blinds For Your Office Or Home
By: Terro White | 25/11/2009Curtains have been used since many years to prevent dust and excess light from entering a room. While curtains are durable and attractive they are often hard to clean. If you do not have time to clean curtains on a regular basis or you want to opt for an alternative then you should consider opting for blinds.
Where Do You Check Marriage Records For Free Online To Find Someones Past
By: James Nash | 25/11/2009If you have question in your mind about how to find marriage records of the person that you intend to marry or someone that you want to know keep on reading, this might come in handy.
Good Baby Safety Checklist - Protecting Your Baby
By: Raj Sharma | 25/11/2009When bringing home your new baby, there are so many things to do in order to get ready. Making your home a safe haven for your new little one is one of the most important things you will do to get ready. Each room contains its own set of dangers. Below is a baby safety checklist to ensure that every room in your house is baby friendly.
How to Become Pregnant – Ways to Get Pregnant Fast
By: Danielle Hill | 25/11/2009There are a number of clinics that provide conventional fertility treatments for the women suffering from infertility. The article describes some natural fertility solutions to conceive faster. It also shows that why the natural solutions are better than the conventional ones.
Tips On Cleaning Granite Countertops
By: Ryan | 25/11/2009You are sitting in your kitchen and you can’t believe your eyes; there, glistening back at you like a beautifully sculpted statue, are your countertops of granite. You have made many sacrifices, but your investment has done wonders for your heart and mind, not to mention increasing the value of your home.
Tips On Cleaning Granite Countertops
By: Ryan | 25/11/2009You are sitting in your kitchen and you can’t believe your eyes; there, glistening back at you like a beautifully sculpted statue, are your countertops of granite. You have made many sacrifices, but your investment has done wonders for your heart and mind, not to mention increasing the value of your home.
Do It Yourself Wedding Invitations: Part 2
By: Francina Smit | 14/07/2009 | RelationshipsPreviously we looked at the first step of creating do-it-yourself invitations for your wedding which is the basic design. It is important not to have a very busy design so that your guests will be able to easily read what the invitation says. This is after all why you send it out! Now we will dig a bit deeper into the layout of the invitation.
Little Known Facts Of Do-It-Yourself Wedding Invitations: Part 1
By: Francina Smit | 02/07/2009 | Home & FamilyMaybe you feel that you do not have a creative bone in your body but you may be pleasantly surprised. It is actually quite easy to put wedding invitations together (or any other invitations for that matter!). The big secret is planning and to break it up into simple steps. Follow the steps one after the other and create your do-it-yourself wedding invitations. See, it is easy!
Ideas For Wedding Flowers: Why Not Make Your Own Bridal Bouquet?
By: Francina Smit | 01/07/2009 | RelationshipsIn the current economic climate everyone is looking for some way to save money in any possible area. And if you are getting married you know by now how many expenses are involved in planning a wedding. You are probably looking for wedding flower ideas and in particular for ways to save on your flowers. One way to do this is to make your own bridal bouquet.
Design Ideas For Wedding Flowers And The Bridal Bouquet
By: Francina Smit | 28/06/2009 | Home & FamilyBridal bouquets have been around for a very long time. In fact Greek brides in ancient times had bouquets made of herbs that were believed to ward of evil spirits! Since you may be searching for wedding flower ideas and because bridal bouquet design has evolved so much, this article will be dedicated to different bridal bouquets.
Etiquette For Various Aspects Of Second Weddings
By: Francina Smit | 20/06/2009 | RelationshipsThere are certain criteria that should be followed whether it is for a first, second or third marriage. It is called etiquette and I will provide information on some ideas and the correct etiquette for various aspects of second or encore weddings.
Second Wedding Etiquette And Ideas For Ceremonies
By: Francina Smit | 16/06/2009 | RelationshipsWill you go with a civil ceremony which most encore brides seem to prefer or will you have a traditional or religious ceremony? This series of articles were written to help you with ideas and etiquette for second weddings and this one will deal with the ceremony in particular.
Ideas For Second Weddings: Invitations
By: Francina Smit | 06/06/2009 | Home & FamilyYou are getting a second chance to plan a wedding that suits your relationship, personalities and style. Make sure you gather information about the etiquette for second weddings.
Etiquette For Second Weddings: Announcing The Engagement
By: Francina Smit | 02/06/2009 | RelationshipsIf you are planning to get married for the second time, all the details will not be something new to you but there will still be subtle differences in the etiquette and ideas for second weddings.