Family ties are a very important part of any family. It can be difficult when family members live a great distance from one another. This often happens with grandparents and that can make it challenging for those who desire to be a hands on grandparent. Long distance grandparents don't have to miss out on everything. There are still many great ways that you can connect and bond with your grandchildren. Even if you can't always be there in person, what matters most is that they know you are there in spirit.
Even though distance divides you, there are ways to span that distance with a personal touch. Sending a care package to your grandchild is a creative way to show them that you are thinking about them. Fill it with things like the treats they would find at your house, a book you would love to share with them and some photos of the two of you together. The memories will bring a smile to their face and keep you in their heart and mind.
A fun activity that you can have your grandchild do is to count down the days until your next visit. Send a jar full of Smarties or M & M's with enough candy for each day. They can eat one per day until the day comes when you will be there with them once again.
The wonder of technology is nothing less than astounding these days. With things like webcams and instant messenger services you can talk to one another and actually see one another. Plan a day to do this once a week so that you can see them as they grow and still interact in a comfortable, meaningful way. Sending frequent emails is also a nice way to keep in touch with grandkids using a format they rely on.
When holidays or birthdays roll around and you are not able to be with them, send them the perfect gift that will always remind them of you. Fuzzy blankets are a great option. Every child loves to snuggle up with a warm blanket, regardless of age. Passed down family jewellery is another fantastic way to show them what they mean to you.
Photos and photo albums remain a main way that families keep track of special events and different stages throughout the years. Granddaughters may appreciate something lovely like a locket with your picture inside or one of the two of you together. A fine pocket watch or other heirloom is great for grandsons, to remind them of their origin.
Call often to speak to your grandchildren, especially if you do not have the ability to talk online with a webcam. There is nothing quite like hearing each other's voice. Letters can really only go so far. Long distance plans are readily available at reasonable rates now. They are well worth the cost.
If you do have internet access, see if there are any games that you can play online together. Even though you are not playing in person, you are still playing together and it's the interaction that counts.
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