Obedient Person is the Happiest Person

Obedient person is the happiest person

Everyone in this world likes an obedient person and everyone in this world dislikes a person who does not obey him. The persons who are in power pass orders and they want that the people to whom orders are issued should carry out those orders and the people who are desiring that some people in power may accept their demand, they pray or request before them and even this group of people like that the people before whom prayers are made or demands have been placed may accept their request and prayer and may grant those prayers.
We like the people who obey us and we dislike the people who do not accept our order or prayer and therefore, we all should keep this psychology of man in our mind when we are dealing with others. We should listen to the man who has come to us and is placing his demands or he is passing orders and after haring, we should decide our next course of action. When a powerful person is passing orders, we are supposed to accept those orders and it is better that we should accept that order and in rare circumstances and situations we can defy the orders and draw contempt of that person. We should try to accept those orders provided those are illegal and provided those are against our conscience. We must know that we are to accept only legal and right orders and we are not liable to accept those orders which are sins, crimes or misconducts, but when we defy orders, we draw contempt of the person in authority.
The children should accept orders of their parents, their teachers, their elders, their friends or the like and similarly the husband should obey order of his wife and the wife should obey the order of her husband. When these two people are not obeying orders of each other, they are calling bad days in the house. A wife is a weak person in the house, but even then she would not tolerate that her husband is not obeying her. She wants a husband who should be obedient and must go out having permission from his wife and should come back at the time which has been fixed by her. He should be in a position to give complete information to his wife on his return and should not conceal anything from her. The husbands who are keeping their own secrets should not be happy because their wives can tell each and everything about them. A wife when comes near to her husband, she can tell as to whether the man had been all alone during the day or he had been spending his time with some woman.
We should try to obey all because all like that their order, advice and suggestion should be followed. If you like that your orders and suggestions should be followed, then you shall have to follow orders and suggestions of others. You should not expect that others shall follow your orders like a slave because that period is over and at the present age there is no one who is slave to us. Even our children and our life partners do not like to become slaves and they too want equal status.
Defying orders and suggestions is not a good habit. when you have come before a man you should listen to him and if his orders and suggestions are useful, you should carry out those suggestions and orders and if those are not right, you should try to see at which stage you should defy those orders and suggestions. In most of the cases, we should control the situation and should try to wait till a suitable situation comes when you can place before the man that his orders and suggestions had not been followed and what had been the reasons and causes.
We all should keep in our mind that all around us want an obedient person and therefore, we can keep our relations good only when we are following orders and suggestions of others and at rare occasions, we should try to disobey them. If you are obedient, you would be having love, affection, respect, nearness and shall be developing good relations and when you are disobeying, you should not expect love, affection and respect from others.
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