Sex Crosses All Boundaries

Sex crosses all boundaries.
Although our religions and our societies have given us directions and instructions to keep the sex within limits, within boundaries, yet there are instances when this man and this woman are found crossing these boundaries and limits. Some of them are caught and they are condemned, but most of them perform sex and are successful to keep those performances secret and could hide these events for the remaining part of their life.
There were times when a father was not having any knowledge as to who is his daughter, who is a blood relation with him, in those days this sex had got no limitations, but after the establishment of this marriage system, some limits were created and the man and the woman were directed to concentrate on the wife and the husband. But still this man and this woman are crossing limits. Sometime they are crossing limits and are caught, but at times they could conceal their activities. If the man and the woman of today conduct introspection honestly, they themselves shall come to the conclusion that they had been crossing the limits and they could conceal those activities. Some time they actually performed sex with those who were prohibited relations and at times they had been found enjoying sex with eyes, with touches and in their heart of hearts.
There may be religious books and there may be religious discourses, but this man and this woman shall not be able to control sex and keep sex within limits prescribed by the religion and by the society. Even law could not keep this man and this woman within bounds. They had been continuing with sex and they are still found indulging in sex.
There were times when we were noting that there were keeps, dancing girls, prostitutes, call girls or the like and there had been instances when this man and this woman had been found conducting rape and adultery. These institutions, though banned under the law are still in existence, at times openly or at time secretly. The religions, the law and the societies could not control the man and the woman and they are still indulging in sex openly or secretly.
Sex is not in control of the man or of the woman. They are slaves of this natural hunger and even great saints and great sadhus in the past had been found indulging in sex and at times they too had been passing prescribed limits. When they could not save themselves from this sex instinct, how the man of today can save himself from this natural instinct. The boundaries prescribed by religion, state and the society are obligatory in character because if we do not prescribe these limits and boundaries, we shall create and establish jungle raj in the world around us and no body shall be safe. All they are doing, they are keeping all these activities secret and they too are afraid of the chance when their secrets shall be out.
Sex is an enjoyment and this is an enjoyment of the greatest in life of man and woman, but when we are crossing limits, we are bound to suffer mental pressure and this mental pressure is creating so many mental problems for the man and for the woman in this world and they are suffering from some long-term diseases. They are after the doctors, but even doctors are not in a position to treat these diseased people. All these diseases are self-acquired diseases and therefore, there is no treatment of these diseases. Time has come when this man and this woman may have some control over themselves and they should not cross the limits prescribed by the religions, by the states and by the societies. If they cannot have complete control, they should lower down the number of instances when they indulge in sex practically or in heart of hearts. That is the only solution .
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