Sister of Father and Brother of Mother

Sister of father and brother of mother
Dalip Singh Wasan, Advocate.

There could be situations when a father is compelled to bring his sister in the house because she has become widow and her in laws are no willing to keep her and similarly sometime situation may arise when our mother is forced to have her brother in the house because he is still unemployed and needs help from her side. But the people who are enjoying Hindi Films in India and they have some interest in stories they play on the screen, they notice that the house in which these two new characters are introduced, those shall not remain peaceful. These two people shall bring all types of disturbance in the house. The members shall start fighting amongst themselves and in due course they shall destroy the house. Therefore, the father may help his sister and he mother may also help her brother, but it shall be better if these two characters are kept out of the house and they are not allowed to join the house.
These two people are very near to the family and the children may be liking them. The sister of the father shall not allow a peaceful life to the mother because often she would be passing adverse remarks on the work and conduct of the mother and she would be remaining under pain and she would not be able to say something against her to her husband. Similarly the mother shall not be hearing anything against her brother who has joined here. The father may be objecting with the remarks that the expenditure is going on the higher side and therefore, this additional man who has joined the house should go out, but the mother shall not be listening to these comments from the side of her husband and there are chances that relations between our mother and father may be disturbed.
These two characters are disturbing characters and therefore, we should avoid entry of these people in the house. The concept of family had been accepted centuries ago and in the family the only members are husband, wife, children till they are minor, daughters till they are married and go out. In rare cases the parents are also considered members of the house because they are helpless and they have got no other source of income and no other house where they could live and maintain themselves. Similarly our sister may rejoin the family if she is not having good relations with her husband she wants to rejoin. The same set of brothers and sisters who were having very good relations with this girl are now not maintaining the same love and affection with this girl who has come back in the house under compelling circumstances.
We have seen that the brothers when they are married, they too start demanding separation because the new entry is not liking to stay in the joint family. She may be wanting to establish her own house or she may not be liking all comments and remarks from the siee3 of her mother in law or father in law. These are the situations when a family breaks, but still there are chances when the people of one house may continue to live together, but in all situations and conditions, we should not allow to stay with the family sister of our father and brother of our mother in the family.. Entries of these two people must be avoided in the house and we should never expect that our father had been living with his sister in the same family and similarly our mother had been living with her brother in the same family. Those were other situations and other conditions and now positions got some changes and now the situations are otherwise and these people shall disturb the family life of all and therefore, these characters should not be allowed in the house for staying here for the remaining part of their life.
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