 |
Once you Say, "i Can't", You're Right!
Author: Darren Robinson  | Posted: 03-04-2007 | Comments: 0 | Views: 10 | Rating: (50)  (?) 
As a network marketer, I get hammered by many statements as, "That doesn't work", or
"I tried that before and it bombed." My answer is usually, "Really? Hmmmm, I must be doing something wrong then because my results are the total opposite."
Once you say, "I can't", you're right.
Once you say, "It won't work," yep, you're sunk.
When you want to accomplish a goal, start a new venture or just trying to decide what to do, what is your mindset? Is it positive or negative? Guess which side of the fence successful people falls on? Guess what thoughts run through their heads when the little light bulb comes on? Do you think it's a positive thought or a negative one?
Here's a complicated equation for you to absorb...are you ready?
Negative = Sinking Yourself
The fact of the matter is that opportunities are presented to everyone. It all depends on how you react. You have the choice as to what you read, who you listen to and the direction you move toward.
Are you going to listen to the person that always says, "I tried that and it didn't work", or the one that is successful at it?
Think positive instead of negative. It's as simple as that. However, change doesn't happen overnight. The decision to change DOES happen instantly, but it takes time to filter out the bad and replace with the good. I call it "Positive Repetition." Every thought needs to be held captive (yes, that’s even stated in the Bible). Out with the old, in with the new. Once you say, "I can't", or "This sucks", or "This will never work", guess what? You're right!! Don't even talk negative about other people. Negative thoughts should not even be a part of your mindset. It isn't rocket science. This isn't a concept that was just thought of this morning.
When things don't go as expected, don't dwell on it. When the car gets wrecked unexpectedly, don't get all jacked out of shape. When a plan doesn't quite work out the way you had planned, don't get frustrated and quit. Think positive! "Let's get it fixed," should be your first thought. Don't focus on the problem. Focus on the future or the positive.
People who ask about the network marketing opportunity involved in often come out stating, "I've joined this stuff before and I didn't see anything happen. What's going to be different?" NOTHING! With that kind of mindset and a negative attitude, nothing will be different. You need to work and get positive. It's not the program that didn't work; it's YOU that didn't work. You didn't work mentally or physically. Positive thinking begets positive actions which begets positive results.
Everybody has issues that come across their daily paths. How you react will determine whether you fail or succeed. If you're positive, there are no frustrations and life is much easier to deal with.
Make a conscious decision to change your mind and make a difference. It all begins within. Take action now to change your mindset from negative to positive and the results will be different.
Rate this Article:
Current: 0 / 5 stars - 0 vote(s).
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/home-business-articles/once-you-say-quoti-cantquot-youre-right-125982.html
About the Author:Darren Robinson has been involved in network marketing for a number of years. Many of those years spent in frustration and failure. Now, success is all that happens in his life and you can visit Darren's blog at http://workathomefreedom.blogspot.com/ for more articles to help you achieve your goals.
|
Submitting articles has become one of the most popular means of generating quality backlinks and targeted traffic to your website. Join us today - It's Free! |
|
Related Articles
Don't Join a Network Marketing Business to Make Money...you'll Fail
By: Darren Robinson | 07/04/2007 | Business Opportunities
Is your perspective on network marketing where it should be? Do you think you have what it takes to be successful in this industry? Have you tried network marketing before and failed? Are you not achieving the results you thought you would. If you're struggling in your primary business, 9 out of 10 times, it's not the business.
Can Success University Become your Source for Success?
By: Joe Rispoli | 14/10/2006 | Press Releases
So what is Success University all about anyway? Well, it actually is an online University that people can enroll in. Success University offers training and development in every facet of life - time management, finance/investment, goal setting, leadership, life balance, health, leadership, networking, relationships, and much more. How can Success University help you with personal development?
Self Hypnosis Allows you to Unleash your Mind Power
By: Michael McGrath | 23/11/2007 | Self Improvement
Do you realize that self hypnosis can be used to make dramatic, lasting changes to your life? Let me show you how to do it.
Do You Make Big Bold Decisions?
By: Michael E. Zacher | 10/06/2008 | Self Improvement
There is a large difference between those who play for success and those who play not to succeed.If you make big bold decisions. Huge decisions and trust your internal instincts. You will be rewarded with the biggest and boldest rewards. It is a universal law.
What Do You See in the Mirror?
By: Keith Shaw | 01/07/2008 | Self Improvement
To reach the top of any endeavor it pays to be focused, determined, confident, courageous and energetic. But for those of us who have higher aspirations and dreams are YOU REALLY doing enough on your success quest?
So You Want To Try Direct Sales
By: Kevin Sinclair | 07/05/2007 | Home Business
Direct sales is become one of the ways that many are seeking to find their fortunes. However, many leap before they truly understand what they are getting into. There are a variety of approaches one can take in direct sales.
MLM Training- You've Got to Stay in the Game
By: Scott Miller | 29/09/2007 | MLM
It's so easy to give up and declare that MLM doesn't work. Well it really does work but you probably have to improve your skills to make it big.
Time- The Low Risk, High Investment Stock That Many Fail to Buy!
By: Joel Chue | 25/05/2006 | Self Help
Time is the most precious value we have. Time is the greatest equalizer of human beings. If we don't aim to admit his and to treat time with respect then we will only have to lose.
Got a Question? Ask.
Ask the community a question about this article:
Frequently Asked Questions
Reasons to Shop through Shop to Earn
By: bwritr | 14-07-2008
What is the advantage of shopping through someone else's Shop to Earn web portal? For example, if someone who shops online anyway did not want to own a website or otherwise invest in Shop to Earn, what would motivate them to shop through my site rather than just shop as they do now?
Breaking a habit
By: sweep | 09-07-2008
What are best books for breaking a habit in 21 days?
Personal for girls only
By: skyler | 08-07-2008
Please do not take this as a weird question its just that alot of people bring up this topic with me asking do i shave my private and i dont tell them... but i really dont no and need help are females supose to shave all there private? please help me
Would there be any harm to a private business ...
By: drabsv | 03-07-2008
Would there be any harm to a private business enterprise if they keep their whole (monthly) budget open to the public?
What are the bestspeed reading courses ?
By: rickson52 | 30-06-2008
What are the bestspeed reading courses ?
What is SmartGreenUSA?
By: clm168 | 24-06-2008
What is SmartGreenUSA?
Q&A Powered by: 
More from Darren Robinson
Make Money not Tears
By: Darren Robinson | 13/04/2007 | Business Opportunities
So, you've determined that you really want to have a home business, you've found what looks like a great opportunity, you join, you talk to your friends and family...and they say something like, "C'mon, that stuff never works." They may even laugh and tell you to "get a real job." You get a sunken feeling in your stomach, your face gets flushed, and you really feel like crying.
Don't Join a Network Marketing Business to Make Money...you'll Fail
By: Darren Robinson | 07/04/2007 | Business Opportunities
Is your perspective on network marketing where it should be? Do you think you have what it takes to be successful in this industry? Have you tried network marketing before and failed? Are you not achieving the results you thought you would. If you're struggling in your primary business, 9 out of 10 times, it's not the business.
Use a Business System to Succeed
By: Darren Robinson | 04/04/2007 | Business Opportunities
Just because you join something, does it mean that you are "entitled" to the great rewards that are normally shown in the compensation plan or the advertising piece? ABSOLUTELY NOT!
Focus on the Compass
By: Darren Robinson | 02/04/2007 | Home Business
In days past when mariners would set out on a sailing mission, they didn't have GPS systems to guide them through the high seas. They made use of a map, the stars and a compass. In the middle of the ocean, there are no landmarks or reference points which to use to
make their way around. Without these essential tools, they could have spent years tossing about the waters and going around in circles.
Over Thinking, Under Performing
By: Darren Robinson | 01/04/2007 | Self Improvement
I've studied many top performers in various lines of employment,and have looked at several over achievers, and one of the major commonalities amongst them is the ability to not only do what they need to do, but also to take action!
Starting Off Successfully With an Online Home Based Business
By: Darren Robinson | 31/03/2007 | Home Business
The internet has opened a huge opportunity for entrepreneurs to make a substantial income working from the convenience of their home. At no time in history has more millionaires been made since the internet was born. If you feel a strong desire to start your own online business and work from home, here are a few tips to help you from going broke before opening the doors.
|
|
Business 
