Husband Cheated Second Time - Can I Learn to Trust Again and Get Over the Betrayal?

I often hear from spouses (usually wives) who feel that they their recovery time after their spouse's cheating or affair has taken far too long. I often hear comments like: "It's been six months since I found about his affair. Why haven't I recovered by now?" "Or my husband has been trying for a long time to make up for his cheating. How come I haven't been able to get over it or recover? He's started to ask me if I even want to move on or if I'm going to punish him forever"

I often hear from wives who offer statements like "everything changed the day I found out about his affair." Or, "my whole life is different after he cheated." If you have never been through this yourself, these statements may seem to be overly dramatic. But, once infidelity actually happens to you, you'll often have a much different perspective and you'll likely know that these statements are pretty truthful.

Here are three secret steps by which, the disloyal and the betrayed can use to save their marriage and rebuild their trust.

If you've found this article, I have to suspect that you are dealing with the aftermath of an affair. You're likely experiencing a slew of difficult, conflicting, and painful emotions that can be extremely challenging to process and manage. It can sometimes feel that your life (or your marriage) can never fully rebound or that this nightmare is never going to end.

Surviving an affair and dealing with the fall-out of your spouse's infidelity is an agonizing and distressing time. You probably feel like you've been hit by an emotional tsunami! Most affairs leave the victim's self-respect shattered and creates an inner-crisis where they may even lose their sense of self-worth.

At this point, I'm reasonably sure they might have had an affair. This was over a decade ago and we've been happily married ever since. Should I confront my husband about something that happened so long ago?" I'll answer these questions in the following article.

heard from a wife who said: "two weeks ago, I saw some things on my husband's computer that lead me to discover that he had been having an affair. When I confronted him, he didn't seem particularly sorry and he said that he'd been very unhappy with our marriage for a long time. He said he went outside of our marriage because it was no longer fulfilling for him. What a lame excuse. If he was so unhappy, why didn't he just divorce me?"

I heard from a wife who said: "my husband had a 3 month affair a couple of months ago. When I found out, I gave him a choice. End it immediately and do whatever I needed to save our marriage or keep it up and lose me. He said that he didn't want to lose our family so he broke it off. However, although I can tell that he's trying to work on our marriage, he doesn't want to have sex with me."

I heard from a wife who said: "I know this is a huge cliché, but my husband had a long term affair with his secretary. Once I found out, she left her job because she told my husband that she couldn't face me. So I am reasonably confident that she is now out of the picture. But although I would like to save my marriage, I'm not sure if this is going to be possible. I have a friend who stayed married after her husband's affair and she is so angry and miserable with him."

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