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Do you fear your spouse is cheating on you, leading a double life? If you suspect something, but cannot be certain, there are signs to watch for that will give away their secret. These plainly obvious red flags will help you put an end to your spouses infidelity.
At the onset of any new relationship, there is a desire to give the other person what they want. Each will mold themselves to suit the other; if it means to make them happy and closer. Examples you might be witness to include changes to clothing styles, new perfume or cologne, even a heightened exercise regime. Your spouse's little secret lover might like your spouse to wear certain things, or smell a certain way. These would be considered drastic changes. If your spouse has been wearing the same styles and using the same perfume or cologne for a long time, a sudden change could mean something is up.
When in a new relationship, each person will be nearly overwhelmed with thoughts of the other. You might notice that your spouse spends considerably more time daydreaming. They will be less focused on you and the household as they spend time in thought and that next encounter with the new flame. There will be less desire to participate in things with you and friends, as this would distract them from where they want to be. If a normally alert spouse seems lost in "la-la" land, it might be due to an affair.
Sex and intimacy with your spouse will probably suffer when they are leading a double life. If they are active in a sexual manner with their new flame, they are less likely going to come to you for it. They probably will make excuse after excuse to avoid any intimate time with you - we have all heard the regular lines: "I'm tired", "Not tonight, I have a headache". And in a twisted way, if they are intimate with you, and their "dedication" is with their new flame, it would feel like they were cheating. While there can be many reasons for lack of sexual drive, you should consider this a red flag.
These are a few basic signs to watch out for. If you feel something is just not right, do not wait until it is far past too late - take action now to stop the infidelity. Additional signs that your spouse is leading a double life can be found through my website: http://catch-a-cheating-spouse-how-tos.blogspot.com/
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