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The worst part about being in a relationship that's on the brink of collapse is having to drag the children through it. Look at it this way, most of us get plenty of experience with ending relationships throughout our lives, so that's not the part that's too difficult, for us adults. It's watching the children suffer for something that the parents are doing. Now that's tuff.
Remember, you have a relationship with your kids. You have a family dynamic between all of the members of the family unit. The children may have been used to this dynamic since they were born. If something is missing, they know it, and it hurts them. Furthermore, the children have no experience with breaking up relationships, and yet they are being drug through it at such a young age. It's a hard experience for a child.
If you're both cheating, then it's likely you both have given up on each other some time ago. Maybe you're both holding it together for the children, and that's understandable, or maybe you're both hanging on because of love. Only you know that reason. The best thing you can do for your kids is remain true to them and maintain respect between everyone. If it's over between the adults, if the love is gone, then do the separation slowly and continually reinforce to the child how both Mommy and Daddy will always be there for them. It's extremely important for the children to know that nobody is leaving them.
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