Self Body Language

Alright, for today I'm going to hit you up with some knowledge on a very key element to your game..
Self Body Language.

Lets talk about how body language first affects your game.

Having some things such as
--Lack of proper posture, terrible eye contact, low level of comfort

Translates to a woman that you are not confident, not happy with your self, apologetic, not alpha, not able to fulfill any of her needs except maybe her gay best friend.. basically you are not seen as a sexual companion when you lack any of these things. It doesn't matter how amazing your voice tonality or kino is if you can't look her in the eyes (Kino is short for Kinesthetics.. the act of touch basically). You definitely won't get away with saying your comfortable if your shifting your weight from foot to foot, doing nervous and weird hand movements, or doing other learned habits.

But first, to correct these things.. you must know what ideal posture, eye contact, and comfort level actually is.

Posture
Posture, eye contact and comfort actually pretty much all go together.. but we'll get in to that later. Lets talk about a simple situation like being in a bar. Imagine your self in that situation. Lets say your holding some water or an alcoholic beverage.. where is that beverage? Most guys hold their beverage up by their chest with their elbow bent. This is actually a terrible stance and is seen as defensive. What would be the correct hold is to hold the drink down by your side near your waist instead. For whatever reason, this body language presents a more confident stance. Okay now your on the move in the bar.. are you moving fast or slow. Your movement should be all slow deliberate movements. When you turn your head.. are you looking across the room fast.. or are you moving your head slowly when you turn it so you can see each and every single person? Obviously slow comes off more confident. Your not afraid and apologetic to check out the room and see who's there. But when your moving.. is your head looking down? if not.. are your eyes? Your head should generally be held straight forward.. unless you are moving it SLIGHTLY down for a seductive glance. But that glance requires something.

Eye contact
Imagine someone you know who's confident.. and someone that actually captures your interest. They can hold eye contact with you for as long as they want can't they? The eyes naturally capture someone's attention. Have you ever been sitting down.. watching TV or looking at a computer screen.. but someone near you was starring at you.. you could feel that stare couldn't you? You had to turn and look right back at that person. It's pretty cool how that works. In later articles I'll describe how your supposed to use eye contact to control the attention of each and every single person in a set(a set is a group of people, a 2set is 2 people, 3 for 3 people, etc. Mixed set for guys and girls.. just set for an all girl set). It also requires movement and gesturing, but that will be in that article. OKAY, continuing.. When your looking at someone.. never break away quickly. And when you do break eye contact.. never break it downwards. Breaking your eye contact downwards is APOLOGETIC. Like.. oh I'm sorry cute lady for looking into your pretty eyes.. You should not be sorry. You are a man. It's cool to be the one checking out the girls and flirting with them. Never be apologetic for doing things you desire. Now rape and all that.. well you should just be stabbed to death for that. There are points when your going to feel like your looking into her eyes way too much. There's a way to reduce that feeling.. and that basically by shifting where you are.. its a purposely done shift of the weight.. not a nervous tick so it makes it okay(at least when you hold eye contact).

Here's a cool little technique you can do next time you see a girl and your meeting.
Kiss each cheek.. and as your doing this hold the eye contact.. then when you get back to the middle you say "In my culture, we do 4 kisses.." and then kiss each cheek again keeping the eye contact.. this will be very intense and will automatically generate the sexual tension. Sexual tension is important if you don't want to become the gay best friend. If you are in the dreadful friend zone.. you lacked the sexual tension. You can still start increasing it and build attraction.. but it'll take a little time.

Comfort
This one is extremely important. Watch any Brad Pitt film. Is there any time he looks uncomfortable? Lol. Yeah that's what I thought. Not even in Benjamin Button haha beast film by the way. Anyways.. Comfort comes with confidence. You have to get over other issues like self-esteem and self-limiting believes. Inner Game is another article another day haha. But lets give an example such as sitting down. When your at your house and you turn on the TV, your reading a book, whatever, think about how your body is. Your not playing with your thumbs, hitting your hands against your leg or any of that. You are relaxed. That is how you should be anywhere you sit. There's not much to say with this topic because to be comfortable with one self.. you must eliminate certain beliefs... and hell if I'm going to write about that right now. We'll get to it.

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