“One of things I keep learning is that the secret of being happy is doing things for other people.”
-Dick Gregory
In the March newsletter, I shared my story regarding my experience with a mentoring program through ABC Organization. In the April newsletter, I shared the first four tips for creating solid mentoring programs. The following is a continuation of that newsletter and the final part of this series. If you would like to first read Parts I and II, please visit www.inspirioninc.com/blog/index.php
The follow are the final four tips to consider when creating a mentoring program:
Tip Six: Support for Mentors
Many times, mentors come across situations with their mentee that they do not know how to address. Having a professional coach available to mentors for support is enormously helpful and assists mentors to feel supported in the mentoring process.
Tip Seven: Training for Mentees
Mentees must get training on how to be mentored and how to offer reverse (cross generational) mentoring.As with their mentors, mentees can make assumptions about what it means to participate in a mentoring program and what they can expect. Some mentees might think their mentor is supposed to help them get a promotion or tell them exactly what to do. Many will not even know what questions to ask or how to ask the questions. Providing your mentees with training on how to best utilize their mentor, will remove the guesswork and help them get the most out of the program.
Tip Eight: Create a Solid and Specific Program
When people understand what to expect, they are more likely to get involved. Simply saying “sign up to be a mentor” without saying what it means to be a mentor, will leave people feeling confused and less apt to get involved. On the flip side, when you set out a specific program indicating exactly what both the mentor and mentee can expect, they will know what they are opting into. To get started, I recommend a program like the following:
Mentors and mentees can expect to meet as a group four times per year on ___ dates for ___ time. Two of these meetings are half day trainings (how to be a mentor/how to be a mentee)
Mentors and mentees are expected to meet for one-hour every month for one year
- Topics to cover in one-on-one mentoring
* Career planning
* Challenges that mentees may be encountering
* Individuals who may be useful business connections
* Strategies for gaining exposure/experience
The mentor program will end on X date with a final award/recognition program.
You can view an example of a mentor program at www.inspirioninc.com/mentorprograms
Tip Nine: Appropriate Pairing
While the mentee’s direct supervisor can provide guidance and certainly some mentoring, it is important that the mentor for this program not be the mentee¡¦s direct supervisor. Instead, the mentor needs to be in a higher position than the mentee and in a different chain of command, when possible. The mentor needs to be in a position to provide ideas/suggestions, make introductions and provide support for the mentee. There is a great deal more freedom to share frustrations and gain important feedback when the mentor is not in a direct management position.
Tip Ten: Have Fun!
Mentor/mentee relationships can extend beyond work/career conversations. You might consider planning other relationship building activities such as lunch, golf, shopping, or whatever fits well with both of your interests. The intention is to create an atmosphere where the mentors and mentees can deepen their relationship outside the framework of career or work. People help people they like and a great way to build strong bonds between people is to create a space for them to get to know each other in a fun way.
About the Author:As the CEO of Inspirion Inc., Misti Burmeister is committed to helping organizations and individuals reach their potential across the generations through individual and corporate coaching, speaking and emerging leadership seminars. She has worked with top fortune 500 companies, military leaders, national associations and education institutions around the country.
Learn more about how to improve the communication between generations at www.InspirionInc.com
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