If you are married it is likely you actually love your wife but it is also likely that at times things don't seem to be going right and you ask yourself questions about your relationship. For most men, this normally arises because of problems or frustrations surrounding the relationship in the bedroom.
Intimacy with your wife is important and you must understand that you have lots of different things you can do to improve it. Stop focusing on what happens in the bedroom for a while and start to think about other ways to improve your relationship.
Below are just 4 ideas for you to help improve your relationship with your wife.
Idea number 1 - Why not ask you wife to go out with you on a date? Let'S face it, if you have been married for a while it is likely that you haven't been on a date with your wife for a long time. Women like to be romanticised and taking them out on a date is a great way to not just improve your relationship, but ultimately it will improve your experiences together in bed.
Sometimes, just getting out of the house and into a different environment is enough to make your wife feel more appreciated and loved.
Idea number 2 - Tell her how great she looks or simply how much you love her. Complimenting your wife often will lead her to realize you still care and want her as much as you did when you first met. It also helps to build her self confidence and makes her ultimately more comfortable around you when in the bedroom.
Add to the compliments as often as you can and don't just keep telling her she looks great. Tell her about great food she has cooked, how clean the house is, thank her for being there etc, etc. All these little things don't take much to say, but they can have a huge effect on your relationship.
Idea number 3 - Women in general like to be seduced. Just telling her to come to bed with you is not seducing her. This is when excuses come out and you then begin to feel rejected. If you want a night of passion, then build up to it by seducing her over a period of time.
Idea number 4 - This relates to idea number 3 and it is simply telling your wife you will help her to fulfil any fantasies she may have. It may take a while for her to open up and tell you what they are, but if you keep reminding her you will do whatever she wants, she will eventually tell you what it is that really turns her on.
This is also a great way of getting her to fulfil your fantasies because if you do it for her, she is more likely to do it for you also. Both of you will begin to appreciate each other much more and it will help your relationship enormously.
Remember, your love life does not always have to be just in the bedroom. Many women in fact get tired of the same routine, so mix it up some and you will find things begin to improve. Desire comes from excitement and the more excited you make your wife, the more she will desire you.
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Does true love really hurt
By: honeybun | 17-05-2008
what if you were with some one and yall broke up then he goes back to hes childrens mother then later on he wants you back then you find out there having another baby what do you do if you really love the person
Shes ben ignoring me for 2weeks wat do i do?
By: Steve | 17-05-2008
i asked out a girl..we've ben chatting for 2weeks and we were laughing and everything...it was really awsome so i asked her out over the phone and she said she didnt know me that well...now shes ignoring me which really sucks
I'm in love with my best friend
By: ange k. | 17-05-2008
I'm in love with my best friend, and I've been dating two of her close friends before. what should I do?
When he tell me he loves me does he, if can't call me,
By: Shelly | 17-05-2008
my boyfriend has not taking the effort to call me in 3 days, his phone is broke but shouldn't he still find a way to get in contact with me. What does this mean
Confused!
By: Emily | 17-05-2008
He says he doesnt want a girlfriend but yet he does all the boyfriend things. Takes me on dates,holds my hand,kisses me,tells me goodnight. What does he really want?
Did he cheat
By: Angie Prada | 17-05-2008
my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months and i had a up and down hill realtionship n his x and me had a fight on im she called n told me they hooked like kissed 4 times when we were together
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