Aren't They worthy to be worshipped?

Marriages are made In heaven. Are they? Like every relationship , it needs all the ingredients to get it going, it requires effort to strengthen it. Marry, and then live happily, is not likely in all the cases, couples end up sooner than predicted. This relationship asks for hard toil, and those couples who take it easy end up devastated.

Devastation might not be the most suitable word for the people who claim to be realistic of practical, or being inclined to do detached analysis of things around. But if taken form the realistic society’s point of view, divorce or break-ups are unhealthy for the structure of a social set up.

In every marriage, ups and downs are inevitable. Partners do have issues regarding compatibility, but that doesn’t mean to end up on a divorce. Societies are built on social ties, and marriage is an institute that needs to be strengthened . Societies have different origins, but the basic values are more or less similar. Developing, or developed countries more or less have same impact of divorce on them and people involved . The effect is taken to be less effectual, but it’s horrible every time, couples decide to part their ways.

The bond can be broken so easily which was tied on the vows of never giving up on each other, how superficial feelings and sentiments were, what went wrong, why those vows started to seem fake and love started to diminish away? The reasons are many and vary according to the couples’ situation.

When do the married couple start getting feeling that their affection for each other ends here and they cannot go any further together as a couple? They don’t know exactly when? They just drift apart. Hardly any couple would try to find out what’s the real problem(though all the couples claim try to find out the real problem). Relationship loses its substance.

The recipe of good relationship between a couple is not to understand each other just to make sure they know all about one another but to give breathing space. Though it’s a very commonly used term but it is the solution. Love is not just waiting to be loved , but to give love and DO NOT EXPECT anything in return.

What happens in other relationships, like between parents& kids, between siblings etc. it’s all natural, you follow the natural instincts to give and receive love when it comes to the above mentioned relationships, then why do we become selfish when it comes to our spouses.

Love your partner and let him/her love you uncondionally. Power of selfless emotions would sweep them off their feet. Relationship between a married couple is so sacred that it should be well taken care off and your partner should be worshipped by you because once you let that feeling overcome you that you are being looked after in return of your love then this is your relationship’s victory.