Every couple would like to have a perfect wedding. In fact, wedding should be one of the most important events in our lives. In this article, the way to plan a perfect wedding will be discussed.
Plan your wedding as early as possible
You have to start planning for your wedding once you decide to get married. You will find that you need to make tremendous amount of decisions and you will also need to stand a lot of pressure, especially pressure from your family. You will certainly find it less stressful if you have plenty of time to make the decisions. It will only be a mess if you make the decision too late or have the essential items done in the last minute.
Your budget
The very first thing for your wedding planning is your budget. It is always a good idea to control your budget well. It will be unwisely to make everything out of your budget. Wedding planning is in fact the art of balancing your preferences and budget.
Research
You will need to do a lot of research in order to make your wedding perfect. You will need to find vendors for different items of your wedding. If you can devote more time to research on your wedding, it will be a lot easier for you to have your wedding perfect. There is no short cut to do your research. The key is to ask and search on the web and bridal magazines.
Your Planning
A good planning is a must. You need to be very clear on the schedule and money allocated for each item. You will also review your wedding plan from time to time in order to make it more perfect. It also helps you to minimize the risk of missing items. It will be a big problem if you find that you miss something on your big day. For example, if you do not plan your wedding favor well, you may not get what you really want on your big day. As a result, you should always review and discuss the plan with your spouse in order to make sure that nothing will be missing in your plan.
Rehearsal
It will be perfect if you can have a rehearsal for your wedding. It can help you to find out if anything is missing or something you have not been consider before. This will make your wedding smoother.
Items to consider
Here are some of the most essential items you need to consider in your wedding planning:
1 wedding date
2 wedding bands
3 venue
4 reception hall
5 cake
6 wedding photography
7 stationery
8 favors
9 guest list
10 gift registry
11 music for the reception
12 honeymoon
Control your temper
As discussed before, you will need to stand a lot of pressure during your wedding planning. You have to learn to control your temper. Losing temper cannot help to solve problems. You should communicate with your spouse and family if you find any difficulties in your wedding planning. By doing this you will certainly find your wedding planning an enjoyable and memorable job.
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By: omgitistotallymatt | 18-11-2007
Orion, this is the same thread i started earleier, i just want to covey that i believe it is the parents causing this to make her feel "dirty", and how she thinks tht if other people know she will be dirtty. how can i subtly tell her this is not so, and (i will be seeing her soon with mostly alone time) how can I do these things to her so she will become comfertable (the whole touching thing). I feel that she believes that we dont need to do this. We dont, but i feel it would add a whole new level to our relationship. Also, she says she is very mature, and i kno she is, but the thing is, i dont want to hurt her doing this. is there a way to get the point across to her that doing this is perfectly natural, and at the same time getting her to believe me, and me doing it to her to show her that it can be enjoyable., do you catch my drit. I dont want sex, b/c marriage is the only time id do tht. I kno we dont have to do this, but is there a way to get her to believe me. the first time i did it, i kno she enjoyed it, is there a way i kan show her that is ok, so i kan do it again (mayb making her feel aroused in a sense, and if so, how do i go abt doing tht). Just any ideas so i can continue this practice, i feel that we are far enough into our relationship that we should be doing this. Also, we talked about the first insident after it happened, and she was telling me abt how she felt "dirty" and tht it just wasnt right. Hope this helps.Plus, i dont know if this would help, but the first day i tried this, i noticed that wht she was wearing was not the norm, like she wore it to make me feel...well you know. I noticed the stuff she was wearing underneath her pants wasnt boxers, but underware, b/c her pants were basically clear (long story on hwo i kno that, but i sware it is NOT cuz i am a perv) . it is lik she is sending me a mixed message, that she wants me stimulated, but she doesnt wanna be Thank you for yorur help so far. :)
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By: murshid | 18-11-2007
Yes, today I approached that girl to marry me. As you may remember, I am 48 y/o well settled man in life, devout Muslim and have decided to marry one young (23 y/o) hindu girl. In fact I called her parent house, where she resides but she -REFUSED- to talk to me! Now I know this must be foolishness of youth but I don't mind, maybe she is shy. Any gal would like to marry with well cultured and moral guy like me. Even asking conversion is not so much big deal as Islam is Truth itself. Tell me plz shall I directly approach her parents. And how can I force her to come to some marriagable understanding to be my beautiful young wife? I need her to marry me by 2 months time as I have business trip coming up and would like to make it convenient honeymoon. AS yet she won't even look on my eye, maybe she is going to feel my love if she does so! I own the parcel of land wherein her parents reside. Shall I use this to drive home my point of marriage? Although I don't like to make use of land but this marriage is too important to let pass by at this time and my feelings for her are too much strong. Thank you and may I get married soon Inshallah!
How can i make her marry me
By: murshid | 17-11-2007
Asalaam all Respected Advisors! I have been working in one company for past 17 years. Lately there has been one young co-worker who has caught my attentions. Every day she is walking past my desk, and I think she is very beautiful girl. We've not held any conversation yet and she's not even looked on my eye or said hello (I think she is shy in her youth) but she does walk past my desk on her way to her office which is next door to mine so I think she must be interested at least somewhat. She is aged 23 while I am aged 48. But for me it's no problem. I haven't approached her yet with marriage proposals as I have not even spoken hi. But if I marry her then I by all means want an Islamic-minded wife. In fact I am very choosy guy. All these years my parents tried this and that to arrange marriage but no girl fits my taste and also I don't fit theirs. I am very good looking guy, little bit balding, slighly paunchy but well fit for my age. I feel I would be great match for any lucky lady! In all this, she appears perfect except for the fact that she is a hindu lady. How can I make her convert and obey the Islam? Also, how can I convince her to marry me in very short time? I would like to wed before two months time. Please say me some great words to use with her. I won't mind her to wear some hijab until she converts but conversion is a MUST. Her youth doesn't bother me in the least. I am very well satisfied and have decided definately to marry her inshallah. Thank you.
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